pantannojack
US Veteran
When the imaginary NR bidder was refused, you should have won the auction if you were next in line. If not it is a scam seller.
Just free thinking: Can you network with other collectors in your area that have items of your interest?
Be it classic cars, antiquities, other items, I have found utility in like-minded collectors in my geographic/locality.
I understand you have been doing this a long time--has it turned out?
Auctions can be great and in rare circumstance a burden. Just curious if you have explored your local network.
ETA: I wish you the best my friend, just wondering if you have a professional or personal network that supports your interests. If so, you will likely have far more interest and benefits in this capacity.