A win over an anti?

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I recently got into a week long debate on FB with a Canadian and a leftist woman from La. It started off with the usual arguments such as: "Why does anyone need: 'assault' weapons, hi-cap mags etc. etc." The Canadian disappeared when I asked him "Why does anyone need a car that does 0-60 in under 5 seconds and goes way over 100 mph." See, he owns and races a late model Porsche.

The woman didn't quit so easily though. She continued the argument saying that the NRA was just a bunch of lobbyists and didn't care about safety and wanted every nut and his brother to own guns. She thought that an "Australian Buy-Back" program was a good idea and that we needed to severely lower the number of guns in circulation. She also believed that registration followed by banning and confiscation would drastically diminish gun violence and held onto the "fact" that you are more likely to be killed by someone you know than by a stranger. She like to call all my points "strawman arguments" but yet posted "studies" that openly admitted there was no correlation between gun control and crime control. She even argued against civilian carry saying that during an active shooter incident, a person-armed or not- should do nothing and let the police handle the situation. She kind of relented when she said Cop-retired or off duty and Military-off duty or retired could respond.

Finally (somehow) I got her to admit that new laws wouldn't be effective in controlling the number of illegal guns or the crime rate and would only take guns away from the law abiding. She did say that she thought that a ("normal") person could carry a gun if they wanted, but that they should never use it. With every counterpoint that I made, I used my 24 years on the job in a large city ghetto to back up certain points, that wasn't "fact" she said, just one man's personal experiences, anecdotal stories. Then I asked her what ideas she had for fixing the problem. Her ideas were training and more training, universal background checks, closing the gun show "loop holes" and licensing for buyers and sellers.

I explained to her how licensing each firearm would A) Be very difficult B) Be dangerously close to registration, which would most likely be the beginning of banning and confiscation and C) Not do a thing to reduce crime.

SOMEHOW, in the end I was able to get her to agree that if first time gun buyers were to take an NRA-approved safety course before buying a gun that would meet her "demands" of more safety training. I got her to agree that a first timer could do 1 of 2 things when buying a gun. #1 Take the NRA safety course, then take the certificate of completion to the gun shop and buy your gun or #2 Go to the gun shop and pick out your gun. Go take the safety course and return with the certificate of completion and pick up your gun ... you could also say that this is a "Cooling Off" period which should make some of them happy. (I based this on Ohio's requirement that first-time hunters take a Hunter's Safety Course before they can get a hunting license) I figured this would be the lesser of the evils.

So did I do OK or did I blow it? I know that many of you don't want any kind of restriction on gun buying, but I was curious what it would take to "turn" an anti that appeared to be sitting on the fence.
 
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Something close was attempted to be implemented by several manufacturers about 3-5 years ago. Every gun sold would have a certificate that they would take to a local range and there the range master, (safety official, etc.) would take the person and show them how to operate the gun give a safety lesson, and help them shoot the gun for accuracy. The gun range would receive certificates for rewards by the various manufacturers in lieu of any payment. The program never go t off the ground as the manufacturers never contacted ranges and found how many or who/where any ranges would be available and willing to participate. The principle they were trying to accomplish was in the right direction, but the application of accomplishing it fell flat. It would take an organization that all ranges belong to and respect to coordinate the range responsibilities side. The NRA is about the only organization that might fit this. I do not see this happening, although if done properly could have lots of benefits.
 
In order to keep with the 2nd Amendment, the training would have to be free and come after the purchase.
 
I recently got into a week long debate on FB with a Canadian and a leftist woman from La. It started off with the usual arguments such as: "Why does anyone need: 'assault' weapons, hi-cap mags etc. etc." The Canadian disappeared when I asked him "Why does anyone need a car that does 0-60 in under 5 seconds and goes way over 100 mph." See, he owns and races a late model Porsche.

The woman didn't quit so easily though. She continued the argument saying that the NRA was just a bunch of lobbyists and didn't care about safety and wanted every nut and his brother to own guns. She thought that an "Australian Buy-Back" program was a good idea and that we needed to severely lower the number of guns in circulation. She also believed that registration followed by banning and confiscation would drastically diminish gun violence and held onto the "fact" that you are more likely to be killed by someone you know than by a stranger. She like to call all my points "strawman arguments" but yet posted "studies" that openly admitted there was no correlation between gun control and crime control. She even argued against civilian carry saying that during an active shooter incident, a person-armed or not- should do nothing and let the police handle the situation. She kind of relented when she said Cop-retired or off duty and Military-off duty or retired could respond.

Finally (somehow) I got her to admit that new laws wouldn't be effective in controlling the number of illegal guns or the crime rate and would only take guns away from the law abiding. She did say that she thought that a ("normal") person could carry a gun if they wanted, but that they should never use it. With every counterpoint that I made, I used my 24 years on the job in a large city ghetto to back up certain points, that wasn't "fact" she said, just one man's personal experiences, anecdotal stories. Then I asked her what ideas she had for fixing the problem. Her ideas were training and more training, universal background checks, closing the gun show "loop holes" and licensing for buyers and sellers.

I explained to her how licensing each firearm would A) Be very difficult B) Be dangerously close to registration, which would most likely be the beginning of banning and confiscation and C) Not do a thing to reduce crime.

SOMEHOW, in the end I was able to get her to agree that if first time gun buyers were to take an NRA-approved safety course before buying a gun that would meet her "demands" of more safety training. I got her to agree that a first timer could do 1 of 2 things when buying a gun. #1 Take the NRA safety course, then take the certificate of completion to the gun shop and buy your gun or #2 Go to the gun shop and pick out your gun. Go take the safety course and return with the certificate of completion and pick up your gun ... you could also say that this is a "Cooling Off" period which should make some of them happy. (I based this on Ohio's requirement that first-time hunters take a Hunter's Safety Course before they can get a hunting license) I figured this would be the lesser of the evils.

So did I do OK or did I blow it? I know that many of you don't want any kind of restriction on gun buying, but I was curious what it would take to "turn" an anti that appeared to be sitting on the fence.[/QUOTE

I think you did well and haveth more patience than I would have had. About 15 years ago, I got into a major debate with a class of coocoos from Sweden over gun issues. I tried my best but all they could manage to come up with 'what its' instead of something actual. After I would try answering inane its, I asked them to try to stay on a real issue and to stop rewording the same questions because they would get the same answers. After a couple of weeks, they backed off and I declared a victory.
 
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You are very patient. I would have let her wallow. Can't post more without risking an infraction.
 
Aloha,

Don't know if I "won" any discussions, but, I do know I have caused some

to "loose it".

Just asked them if they were talking about themselves when they talked about people going "postal".

Then I'd tell them maybe I should report Them to the police for their thoughts.

What happens next is a Kodak Moment.
 
SOMEHOW, in the end I was able to get her to agree that if first time gun buyers were to take an NRA-approved safety course before buying a gun that would meet her "demands" of more safety training. I got her to agree that a first timer could do 1 of 2 things when buying a gun. #1 Take the NRA safety course, then take the certificate of completion to the gun shop and buy your gun or #2 Go to the gun shop and pick out your gun. Go take the safety course and return with the certificate of completion and pick up your gun ... you could also say that this is a "Cooling Off" period which should make some of them happy. (I based this on Ohio's requirement that first-time hunters take a Hunter's Safety Course before they can get a hunting license) I figured this would be the lesser of the evils.

So did I do OK or did I blow it? I know that many of you don't want any kind of restriction on gun buying, but I was curious what it would take to "turn" an anti that appeared to be sitting on the fence.

So.... you sacrificed the 2A rights of first time buyers. What did you get in return?

One of the problems over the years has been law makers "negotiating" away our 2A rights a little bit rather than a lot, then declaring victory. Example: Gun control advocates write a bill with 10 gun control laws. Pro gun legislators kill 9 and agree to 1 in negotiation. Who won?
 
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You wasted your time. You did not change her mind. She ran out of talking points and needed to recharge with her anti friends. But if you feel good then that is fine. But don't fool yourself into believing you have somehow enlightened her. Yup, ever the pessimist here...:D

Oh and giving in to some "reasonable demands" only leads to more and more and more and more and more.....well, you get the idea. But if you feel good.

She is probably bragging to her friends that she softened a gun nut.
 
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It's impossible to "win" any discussion with an anti-gun person. Their beliefs are based on irrational and mythological assumptions. Using logic is completely beyond them.

However, you did do well. Any attempt at rational discussion is a good thing.

I have found that the only real way to win one over is to take them to the range. Once there, I have yet to have a person no smile. This is the first step toward normalcy.
 
My head is spinning with too many fragmented thoughts so I'll keep it short...

When I worked I had a lot of arguments with coworkers on many different hot topics.If I couldn't reason with these people I at least tried to get them to do their own research instead of just accepting the one-sided misinformation on the news or out of D.C.

It usually shuts them up or at least they don't argue with me anymore.
 
Never try to teach a pig to sing.

It wastes your time and annoys the pig.

I gave up on discussions with anti's.

They don't get it, never will - cognitive dissonance.

I used a gun to deter a crime and was disrespected for it by my family. Their logic was so kerfluffeled and idiotic, that in no universe could I have understood or related to it.

Brainwashing is a real thing.

Cognitive dissonance.
 
They don't get it, never will - cognitive dissonance.
I don't care if they "get it" (and know that they almost never do).

What I want is for them to publicly NOT get it in a sufficiently offensive way to repel observers. I do everything I can to get them to expose THEMSELVES as bigots, liars, and sociopaths. Once I get them started, I only have to step aside and let them discredit themselves.
 
What I would support is gun safety classes in schools. We teach safe sex, drivers education, and that Chaucer wrote Canterbury Tales. To many people kill themselves and others being stupid with firearms.

It wasn't all THAT long ago that they did teach it in schools :(
 
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