Dwell time of the Apex barrel has more to do with the geometry of the lugs and the fitting pad on the lug. Also, even if you fitted it very tightly, it would start to wear to the point where it would loosen up eventually. The tighter it is, the more friction there would be and the faster it would "lap" together. I would guess that a barrel that needs a little nudge to go fully into battery when eased forward would no longer need that nudge within 1k rounds fired.
Obviously the tighter it's fit, the more accurate it will be; but like I mentioned (and this is just my opinion) I think a bulk of the accuracy and shot-to-shot repeatedability comes from the fact that the barrel doesn't drop out of lockup until the slide has moved considerably rearward as compared to stock... and that happens due much more to the geometry of the lugs / lockup than because of friction or whatever holding the hood / slide together. Maybe Randy will chime in with a more conclusive answer.
Regardless, I think you need to not worry about it so much until you fire the gun for accuracy. I own plenty of non-M&P pistols that are very accurate that don't lock up as tight as a brand new Les Baer. I have found, for example, H&K pistols to be some of the most accurate production guns I've shot and I certainly don't have to push their barrels up to get them to lock into the ejection port. (Now if only Apex made trigger parts for my HK45c, I'd be one happy camper.)
Thanks for the response sir. What do you think about the little bit of side to side wiggle I have? I called Apex, and the lady who answered the phone told me that if it has side to side wiggle, it means I took too much off of the hood length. Don't know how accurate that is. Mary is the person I spoke to.