LoboGunLeather
US Veteran
Oh, I thought you were at least 59. You and I are similar in that regard. I’m 55 and 18 months retired. Spending money you’ve been sitting on for 30 years is a strange feeling. Suddenly the money is real. Not just a bunch of numbers on a statement.
In addition to that I have found it impossible to break the habits of a lifetime of working, saving, and investing. The thought of spending interest or dividend income is difficult for me to wrap my mind around. I'm still concentrating on making sure my wife is provided for in the event I must check out.
Way too many years of too much month left at the end of the money! Now that we actually have comfortable retirement and investment accounts I receive a lot of pleasure by continuing to grow them.
We are now into the RMD years, take the minimum withdrawals and pay the taxes or suffer the penalties without seeing the money. Fortunately, with 9 grandchildren and 9 great-grandchildren there are very few times when cash infusions aren't needed somewhere, and we can do it without having to tighten our belts.
Of course, after taking the RMD the net amount becomes after-tax money that can go into savings and maybe grow a little more.
Mixed feelings, for sure. Those old habits are tough to break.