There are no 142 grain bullets. There are some 140 grainers, and the Winchester Silvertip is 145 grains. (And it is an excellent choice.)
I've posted about this so often that I'll just hit the high points here, because I know that your need is real.
Factory reps told me that the hot 125 grain and lighter loads erode the forcing cone much worse. They advised 158 grain bullets. Brand and amount of jacket material don't seem to be an issue. Engineers at several ammo plants told me that they have done no research on the 140-145 grainers, but that they should be okay. The bullet stays in the case long enough to burn most of the powder better than in the lighter bullets. Burning powder grains are among the "ejecta" from the case that erodes the barrels and top straps.
If your barrel is four inches or longer, the 158 grain loads are fine, and typically give about 1200 feet per second to the bullet. In shorter .357's, I lean toward 140 grain bullets, for about the same velocity.
T-Star