Dryrider
Skeeterbait has given you a good description of 'power', however IMHO terms like 'overpenetration' are often overused in discussions of handgun stopping power. As SkBt correctly points out, you want the projectile (bullet) to expend it's energy on the target, not just poke a hole through it (like the old round nose lead types often did). There are many variables (like bone, muscle, inards, clothing, car doors, sheetrock, etc.). Many feel an 'ideal' case of the bullet stopping just inside the skin on the other side is what you want - the bullet has used all it's energy on the target and no innocents behind the target were penetrated. In reality, the goal is to stop the target from threatening you or yours and exit wounds are where a lot of blood loss and injury occur (better to have too much and not need it IMHO). So, ideally you want bullet expansion, which is using energy on the target, and just enough penetration (but not too much). How much is that? It really depends on what and where you are shooting and it's impossible to predict what will happen in any given circumstances.
Buffalo Bore makes a 180 gr hunting load for the .357 that is quite 'powerful'. On the other end of this spectrum they make a 125 gr @ 1700 fps (lighter, but faster (not recommended for your K frame)). Also marketed for hunting are the Hornady Leverevolutions (140 gr. @ 1440fps) I just load my .357s with a 135-158 gr. hollowpoint running about 1200 fps. Another factor to consider is recovery for subsequent shots: controlability.
I like the PMC Starfires (145 gr?), Speer Short Barrel Gold Dots, or just Remington 158gr. SJHP. But remember, while modern ammuntion is better than it used to be, there are no magic bullets.