Thanks all of you guys. Especially WC145 thank you for taking the time to write all of that and my bad for calling it SF, now I know not to do that. I'm a little conflicted because the risk of TACP is appealing to me because I've always been into dangerous, adrenaline filled hobbies (though not on the level of war obviously), but then I consider family, friends, and my girlfriend here at home. So I'll have to think hard on that and make what I feel is the right choice. But based on what you guys have said I definitely feel like TACP is the way to go. Either way I am starting to really want to serve in one way or another.
I've also considered AF Firefighter which I've read is the "best job in the Air Force". After reading about that more I think I prefer that more over Security Forces if I don't go TACP.
WC145 what was family life (if you had a wife or girlfriend at the time) like for you? What is it like for your son?
HA! When I was in family life was not an issue. I went in at 19 and was stationed at Nellis AFB, just outside of Las Vegas. I drank and partied and knew lots of girls but none were steady or serious. I don't recall anybody getting in trouble over drinking, regardless of age, unless you did something stupid like DUI. I lived in the barracks for a while but my roommate and I applied to live off base and got permission. We shared an apartment and with our quarters allowance we did okay, even made a little extra as I recall. We partied our asses off when we weren't working, as one might expect of guys in their late teens/early 20's living in Vegas.
It's been different for my son because the Army bases don't have permanent quarters for AF personnel. He only had a temporary barracks room for a few weeks when first got to his duty station to allow him time to transition in and find a place to live. Because there are no housing facilities for AF he automatically qualifies for quarters allowance (extra money you are paid to cover the cost of housing) and he shared a house with some other guys from his unit. By his second deployment he had found a girlfriend, by his third they were living together, and they got married last November after he returned from A-stan in September. She understands what his job is and the dangers involved, it is something they have discussed at length. The time apart is much different than when I was in, back then we only had pay phones and letters. Nowadays with email, Skype, instant messaging, cell & sat phones, etc people are able to stay in touch like never before. During his last deployment they spoke on Skype regularly.
It's important to understand that with any job in the military you will go where you are needed most, chances are that, unless you go Guard or Reserves, you won't be stationed near your home. On top of that, in a job like TACP, where you have combat deployments, it adds another level of stress to a relationship. Like I said before the vast majority of TACPs are stationed on Army bases but not all Army bases have TACP units so the number of places you could be assign as a duty station are limitied but spread far and wide. In addition, you have lots of training TDYs, my son is gone from home anywhere from a few days to several weeks several times a year for training. All of these things (and more) and how they will affect the people close to you must be taken into consideration when choosing a career field.
TACP is a great job for a smart, physical, adventurous young man but it is very hard to get through the training. As I mentioned in my earlier post the attrition rate is around 50%. The training is as cerebral as it is physical - you train like an infantryman while learning all about the air assets and munitions available to you along with the radios, computers, etc that you will use to communicate with nad control the aircraft and coordinate targets. Everything that you learn to do electronically you will learn to do on paper mathematically and by sight as a redundancy because you can't trust that your equipment will always work 100% of the time. If you manage to get through the school house your training will continue at your duty station because you immediately start working to be functional in the field as an apprentice and building toward becoming a JTAC all while maintaining your physical skills and conditioning.
As difficult as it is, once you are trained up to a functional level and have some experience under your belt things get easier. My son leads a pretty normal life when not deployed, he works M-F, they have a house and dogs and he just bought a new Harley. The money is good and he is doing well for himself for being just 25. But like other men in direct combat jobs he has seen and done things that your average Joe can't relate to. That can be an issue, like in social settings with people his wife works with or other people that are not military, it's not always easy to find common ground. All of his friends are other TACPs, his best man and groomsmen were guys he served overseas with. The things they've experienced together and the uniqueness of the job and training and that there is so few of them make the TACP community very close knit. The fact that they are AF but are seldom involved with the AF can make it difficult when he has to deal with other AF personnel or go to AF bases. However, for him, the rewards are greater than all of that and he really enjoys what he does. He likes not being part of the AF establishment and being kind of an outsider, neither Army nor AF, but some of both. Again, that is a part of the job you must contend with, not everyone is comfortable with that.
If you get yourself the book "Danger Close: Tactical Air Controllers in Iraq and Afghanistan" it can give you a lot of insight about the job and how these guys work. Also, check out the ROMAD Locator (
The ROMAD Locator), it is a site that is by TACPs for TACPs and they have a forum, you can get lots of questions answered there as well.
I don't know anything about being an AF fire fighter, can't help you there other than to say that, as far as my son is concerned, TACP is the "best job in the Air Force". If he couldn't do that, he'd get out.