I’m Thanks to all for the replies and suggestions.
Past couple of days I have visited 6 LGS’s to look at what’s available.
First thing I did was rule out a semi, personally I just don’t trust their reliability at being 100% if ever I needed one in an SD situation. The S&W EZ 380 while nice enough, just wasn’t for me.
I did mention that I do have an Ruger SP101. It is the Wiley Clapp Model with the 2” barrel. I think the problem with that model is with the short barrel, it’s like a big chunk of iron in my hand. I was ale to fondle the 3” model and, surprisingly it felt more comfortable to hold. Still a bit bulky, but nice.
I did handle some K and L frame models. The L frame definitely is a no go. Just a tad to much to wrap my hand around.
Now the K frames were the best to hold. Just the right size and weight, even with a heavy barrel. The frame size seemed to make all the difference.
Now I’m wrestling with myself, in my head:
.38 sp vs 357 mag, I probably wouldn’t shoot 357’s, but the option is there.
An 5 shot vs 6 shot revolver.
An 3” barrel (which felt like it had a better balance) or a longer barrel.
Decisions decisions decisions.
The biggest problem with my hands is that, in July I had my left thumb joint operated on. It’s still in the healing process. I’ve lost some gripping ability. Looks, actually feels like, next year I will need to have the right thumb joint operated on. Every joint in my hands are affected by arthritis.
From the replies I’ve received and read on other posts, arthritis affects a lot of the older shooting community.
Three years ago I had to give up motorcycle riding. I hope that I won’t have to give up shooting now.
Thanks again for all the replies and suggestions.