I took early retirement in 2004, when I was 53. I did this for two reasons: my wife was disabled in an accident in 2003 (broken neck) and my job required a lot of travel, so that was very difficult...but then in 2004, my company wanted to relocate me to NYC, where our new HQ was, and I said no. My boss couldn't have been nicer about it...I did have the points to retire early, but my pension was going to be reduced. Since my job was going to NYC whether I did or not, she treated it as a job elimination for me, and I was given severance pay, which made up the difference. Also, I fully expected to get a very small bonus for 2004, but she gave me the biggest one I've ever gotten. (Maybe she was just really glad I was retiring?!?)
We never know what life is going to throw at us...shortly after I retired, I started having health problems of my own. So, now my wife and I take care of each other. I wish I could have worked until I was 65, but even had my wife not been disabled, I probably wouldn't have been able to keep working, just with my own issues.
It's been an adjustment...from having an all-consuming career to basically doing nothing, plus our finances took a major hit with the medical bills (one hospital stay alone, when my wife wound up in ICU for a month after one of her multiple surgeries, left us owing about $500K) but money isn't everything. In fact, you never know just how much someone means to you until you see them in a coma for a month, praying they won't die, and you learn what is really important.