"Poor" is sort of a subjective term. Means different things to different people.
My parents couldn't afford a babysitter for me when we moved to Charlotte. They had just bought this little house that must have seemed like a palace to them compared to our previous house.
Mom and dad had both worked in a hosiery mills down in South Carolina, and after we moved here, mom had gotten hired at a mill here...this was about 1951, and I remember it clearly. It was the Nebel Mill. But she couldn't take the job because of the babysitter issue. Dad had already found work at the old Hoskins Mill here.
I can't remember the mill owner's name, but mom went to him and explained the situation to him, adding that she desperately needed the job.
The next day, that man had this huge (to me) knitting machine delivered to our little asbestos shingle house! They brought it in in pieces and assembled it against the wall of what was
supposed to be the dining room. It seemed to take up most of one wall...blocking out a window that looked out into the back yard.
So mom knitted on this machine on what I now know was the night shift. I slept on a pallet on the floor made of quilts that had been made by her mother. I have vivid memories of that machine whirring and clicking and clacking away all through the night, and waking up in the mornings to the sight of mom and dad sweeping up cotton lint from the floor. It seemed normal to me.
Two foods were staples at our house for breakfast and dinner. Breakfast was often brains and eggs. Yes. Brains. They were apparently dirt cheap. I was too little to even know what a "brain" of any kind was. But I loved those brains and eggs, just gobbled 'em up. Yum-yum, eat 'em up. I didn't find out until I was grown that I'd been eating pig brains and sometimes cow brains. I damn near threw up.
Sometimes for breakfast, I'd get a Neese's sausage patty and a piece of toast with cherry preserves on it.
The other thing was oyster stew for dinner. Served up with those little oyster crackers and with dill pickle grated into it. I remember it was kind of a milky color and had
things floating around in it. I slurped that stuff up by the bowl full. Mm-m-m-m good, right? I can't even
look at an oyster now in any shape, form, or fashion.
So that's one of my we-were-so-poor stories. All true. But I was only a little kid, not even in first grade yet, so I really didn't
know we didn't have a lot of money. Nothing unusual about any of this...there were lots of people like us in the early fifties. Lower middle class folks, just trying to get by and enjoy life.