I don't think it's that wadcutters are better than FMJ in revolvers, but traditionally most people shoot lead bullets in revolvers. Personally, I like FMJ bullets for practice, regardless of gun type. For my 642-1 in .38 Special, I do most of my practice with 130gr FMJ, specifically PMC 132gr FMJ, and Speer Lawman .38 Special 158gr TMJ +P when I want to do some +P practice. Both work fine in my snub.
The one good thing about wadcutters, though, is that, aside from their low recoil, they do punch nice, clean holes in targets. FMJ tend to leave jagged holes, which you've probably seen shooting 9mm FMJ. May not be particularly important for routine practice, but if you're really trying to work on precision shooting it can be helpful.
For practice, just get whatever the cheapest ammo you can find, especially with ammo being hard to find nowadays. As long as it's not some bargain-basement, commercially-reloaded junk, you should be fine.
If you have self defense ammo, it would probably be a good idea to try and get practice ammo in the same bullet weight, but it's not essential.
You may also want to do a search. Ammo suggestions is a regularly occurring topic.
Just my opinion.