I'm thinking "The Load" would be more unpleasant to shoot from a J frame, steel or aluminum, than full power 125 grain .357s from a 2.5" 19 or 66 with wood stocks.
Remington 125 grain +P (scalloped jacket) .38s aren't a whole lot of fun out of a 36 with magna stocks. Not bad, like 240 grain .44 Spl from a Charter Bulldog with wood grips, but not a lot of fun.
That tiny grip accentuates felt recoil.
Gold Dot is my current factory HP.
I do like Buffalo Bore's FBI and Outdoorsman .38 loadings.
I don't like them in a J frame with magnas.
In a K or L frame or a Ruger DA, they're sweet.
In a glorified .32 frame, like a J frame, I don't enjoy them.
Lately, I've been loading all my .38 and .357s with Hornady HBWCs and Cowboy bullets. 2.8 grains of Bullseye (can't go wrong with that) for the wadcutters, and 3.5 grains of Red Dot for the 140 grain Cowboys.
Cheap, accurate, easy on the hands.