When I visited with a cousin in Paris some years ago, (a prominent French attorney), he told me a story that is both chilling and ironic.
His father was a Jew, his mother Catholic. They lived in Paris.
In 1942, my cousin was only months old, his elder brother 4 years old when French police working in concert with the Vichy government and the Nazis captured his father when he had come out of hiding to try to spend some time with his family whom he had been forced to leave behind.
He was deported to Drancy, on the outskirts of Paris, where he was held with other Jews and "undesirables" and then sent on to Auschwitz for extermination, where he was murdered.
A few years after the war, my cousin's mother married an American soldier and eventually he moved them to Germany during the post war occupation.
His adoptive father was stationed at Dachau, which garrisoned U.S. troops for close to thirty years following the war.
My cousin, who was raised a Catholic by his mother, received his Confirmation at the chapel at Dachau. An ironic twist of fate to have this as the site for his own rite of passage, given that his father had lost his life in just such a camp some years earlier.
Out of respect for my cousin and his murdered father I visited the Holocaust memorial in Paris with my wife while I was there, and it sent chills up my spine to see his name inscribed there.
It is hard to express both the sadness and the anger / hatred that were generated on that hallowed ground.
My cousin was educated in both Paris and in the States and went on to a very successful career in the law.
His late brother spent his life as a career officer in the U.S. Army.
Their father would, I am sure, have been very proud of the two men they each grew up to be.
Never again!