I am a newer gun owner. I bought my first gun roughly 3 years ago when the riots happened, and I saw Asians being attacked. Over those 3 years I have learned a lot and slowly have quite a bit of kit and training to use it. Everyone I have met in the 2A community has been amazing to my family and I, which contradicts all the nonsense I heard all my life. If there is one thing negative I've noticed, if I am being honest, it is the lack of physical fitness (on average) and situational awareness I have seen. Now that doesn't mean this is every gun owner or everywhere, but at my Club it seems I'm the most physically fit person and I only work out 3-5 times a week. I hear many of my friends at the Club talk about being prepared for anything, but it saddens me to think they don't see the threat from within from heart disease. While I agree wholeheartedly firearms and training in their use is critical, I would argue many of us are neglecting the physical training we need. I have even seen jokes about having a gun so you don't have to run, but you can't outrun the time bomb in your chest from poor health.
The other thing I've noticed, especially with those who open carry is the alarming lack of situational awareness or at least what I am perceiving as a lack of it. It seems like half of them could have their gun taken right out of their holster, but maybe I'm wrong and inexperienced in this regard.
I will admit, I need to work on both of these too. Had a newborn recently and haven't been to the Gym in a month. Starting back tomorrow now that things are more stable. I also admit my situational awareness is lacking at times. I was at the beach with my kid the other day and texting my brother in California, when a pitbull ran right up on here (friendly) that a beachgoer did not have leashed. Even with my revolver if that dog had attacked her I'd have already been too late. I have much to work on...
I guess my question is do you think we are (generally speaking) not having enough of a balance here? Or am I overstating the problem.
The other thing I've noticed, especially with those who open carry is the alarming lack of situational awareness or at least what I am perceiving as a lack of it. It seems like half of them could have their gun taken right out of their holster, but maybe I'm wrong and inexperienced in this regard.
I will admit, I need to work on both of these too. Had a newborn recently and haven't been to the Gym in a month. Starting back tomorrow now that things are more stable. I also admit my situational awareness is lacking at times. I was at the beach with my kid the other day and texting my brother in California, when a pitbull ran right up on here (friendly) that a beachgoer did not have leashed. Even with my revolver if that dog had attacked her I'd have already been too late. I have much to work on...

I guess my question is do you think we are (generally speaking) not having enough of a balance here? Or am I overstating the problem.
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