Hell yeah, it's a blast and often quite rewarding. I do a fair bit of it out here in CO.
I'll give you a rundown of the gear you asked about.
Tent: I've used a bunch, the one I settled on is the Big Agnes Copper Spur HV UL2. I found eventually that having two doors and a freestanding setup was worth the weight penalty over something like the fly creek. The Nemo Hornet 2 is also a good call. Please note that two person tents can fit two people, but you will be very cosy. General rule is if you actually plan on spending lots of time with two people in the tent, get a three person model.
Stove: Jetboil! I like the minimo, but the flash or really any model are good. This is really only going to get used for boiling water, either for dehydrated meals, pasta, or coffee, but that's mostly what you're going to use backpacking anyways.
Sleeping Pad: There are lots out there depending on your budget, I'm often a side sleeper so I double up with a thermalite pro-lite plus, which isn't very pricey, and a foam "z pad". That said, this will be the most personal of the choices in my mind, so go to your local REI and test out a bunch, then do a quick search on the one you like in your budget to confirm it has a reputation for durability. Also, if you wanna cheap out on this, go to your REI's Garage Sale section and look for leaky pads. Confirm the leak isn't in the valve, then buy it cheap, take it home, submerge it in the bathtub to find any leaks and patch them. That's been my go to anytime I or a friend need one.
Cookware: Entirely personal, most of what I use the pouch or bag it comes in will be the plate I use. I like a long fork to get into the dehydrated meal pouches, I'd just grab whatever one I find cheap at walmart.
Sitting: Take the Z pad if you bring it, or buy one and chop it to a small section better for sitting (think something like this, but you don't need to pay $20
https://www.rei.com/product/186714/nemo-chipper-reclaimed-closed-cell-foam-seat-pad)
Other stuff: If you're planning to go back to CO, often you'll need a bear can. They're all pretty much the same, but go for a can over a bag as much of our cool camping is above the treeline. You'll also want to make sure you've got a decent headlamp, first aid kit, and poop kit (shovel, TP, baby wipes).
Also noticed no mention of a sleeping bag, so if you need one of those two spend a little money and get yourself a good one, 20 degree or better preferably. Down vs synthetic is an ongoing argument, but if you're a sidesleeper like me the synthetic Nemo Forte 20 is hard to beat and way comfier than a traditional mummy bag.
Just remember, weight is your enemy and it does all add up, as the "ounces become pounds, pounds become pain" saying goes.