Good points all...let me address them as best I can, and maybe clear up my own thinking a bit.
I am no expert on HPs, but I've had five of them over last forty years, four of them 9mms, and every one of them has bitten my hand. Some had round hammers (and I wish I had both of those back), others had spur hammers. 1911s without beavertails bite my hand. In other words, I consider a little blood to be the "price of doing business" and don't worry too much about it. The 40 HP is a whole different animal. It doesn't bite, it chews.
Reloading would mitigate the problem, at least to the extent of reducing the chomp to a nip. As it stands now. I reload 38/357, 44 SPL/MAG, and 45 ACP/AR. I would rather not add another ctg at this stage of my life (and available reloading space). 9mm was for a long time the cheapest centerfire you could shoot. Things have changed, but I suspect that when that when the current shortages settle down the 9mm will give the most bang for the buck, short of reloading.
As for simply trading for a 9mm, I would if I could without taking a gigantic soaking. I haven't seen a new HP at a gun show or a gun shop in Houston for less than $900, and I've been looking for two years. In fact, I've seen very few HPs new or used. I should have gotten one of the FN HPs when they were available, but it looks like that boat has sailed. Even the clones seem to have gone away. I bought my 40 new from Shawn Nelms about ten years ago (2000?), for $372 including tax, title and my recappable tires. The Bar Sto website shows a 40 to 9mm conversion bbl which they will fit for a little more than $200 plus return shipping. Call it $260 there and back. I can live with that.
If this conversion works, the result would feel different than an original HP, no doubt about that. There is more mass in the slide and maybe other differences I don't know about. There might be a plus side to that though. The 9mm HP often doesn't do well with +P type loads. I rounded the locking recesses in a 1970 production HP with about 300 rds of SuperVel 112 gr sp. I saw two others in the same time period with similar damage from warmish hand loads. It's hard to imagine that happening with the more massive 40 slide.
Is this conversion even possible without changing out or rebuilding the slide? That is the $24 question. I've seen postings on other websites that say that it is. But I also just saw a posting that "proved" that Dick Chaney was still secretly controling the American military and that is why people are still dying in Hati. I was hoping that someone on this forum (which is largely composed of sane people) might have tried this conversion and could say either it could be done or "fool find some other way to waste your money".
I tried to contact Bar Sto today, but didn't get through. If I find out anything from them I'll update.
Thanks for your time and thoughts, guys...
Charles