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I was going to post this in another thread, but decided that maybe it should go in a thread of it's own.

As you all know, school kids are coming out for more gun controls.

Why don't they control themselves? Get themselves and their friends out of the TV and video games and show that they can have a LIFE. Stop kowtowing to that 'street' philosophy where disrespect warrants immediate death. Stop repeating the stuff about death being glorious, especially if you take a lot of people with you. When you watch movies with lots of guns and violence remember that it is JUST a movie. REALIZE that there are options if you'll just use your brain to think them up instead of just saying, "I'll just have to kill myself and everybody else'. Don't pound negative stuff into your head. If you pound it in hard and long enough, that's all you can think about. Thinking like losers is a good way to become one.

Try to make contact with people that are alienated. Let them know that everybody has problems and don't always fit the mold and that it's OK to feel that way. It doesn't mean you have to end it all. And bad times don't last forever. DO SOMETHING with your life. Life is hard but it's worth living. And if you don't think so, look at the people around you that really WILL be sad when you are gone.

Don't follow paths that you know are dead ends, literally. Life is something that you have to prepare for. Don't prepare and it is guaranteed that you are going to be miserable. Get off you ***, go places and try new things. Meet different people. Don't sit in your room feeding depression with drugs and self destructive thinking. Sitting around moaning and groaning is sure to bring you down unless you break that hold it has on you. Give yourself a chance to grow up before giving up.

Our son tells me now they he doesn't like sitting around smoking pot because it keeps him from doing things that he wants and needs to do. He has plans for the future. If you don't make some kind of plans the future definitely looks lousy.:mad:

Look at 'parents'. All of the delinquent kids I know either won't live at home with rules or they only have one parent at home. The parents do all kinds of dope and make a mess of their lives but who really suffers?

Sun Tzu said that if you give orders and they are not understood, it is the leaders failing. If they do give clear orders and they are understood, then if somebody breaks the rules it is their failing and they get what they deserve.
 
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Bah! Millennials and kids these days, grumble grumble video games grumble grumble!!! :D

Look, each generation thinks the next are a bunch of dullards. It's just the way things are and you won't change it, no matter how many words you type.
 
Social promotion in school, reward little Johnny for hanging up his coat, everybody on the team gets an award, trophies for participation, nobody fails, video games that are so realistic that I’m reminded of some of my deadly encounters in the military & LE . . . . We are just beginning to reap what we have sewn.
 
I've written here.....

Bah! Millennials and kids these days, grumble grumble video games grumble grumble!!! :D

Look, each generation thinks the next are a bunch of dullards. It's just the way things are and you won't change it, no matter how many words you type.

I've written here about how many kids have it on the ball and are real hopes for the future. But now many are also programmed systematically to either do evil or self destruct. This has only gotten worse over the years. And it correlates with how much death and destruction they are into with their exposure AND to their participation in ultra-violence that glorifies death and destruction. Now it's a way of life. About all of us as teens felt hopeless and unloved but we didn't think that shooting up a church or school was a good idea or would solve anything. In fact, the thought never entered out minds. But this stuff has been pounded and crammed into kid's heads. And if we want to do something about the horrible violence in this country, that would be a very good place to start.

And again for parents. Do things with your kids. If you let a gangster baby sit them while you do what you want, you can expect that will have an negative effect.
 
Look, each generation thinks the next are a bunch of dullards. It's just the way things are and you won't change it, no matter how many words you type.

IDK, I myself am beginning to wonder what's happened to our youth over the past couple decades. Something in the water warping their brains while still in the womb? There are way too many kids today diagnosed as ADHD, autistic, dyslexic or a number of other mental and learning disorders. I was walking the sidewalk in my neighborhood recently and came across a family loading into the car. The 5-ish year old boy apparently didn't want to go to school and was throwing a temper tantrum which sounded exactly like what we heard in the film "The Exorcist". Foaming at the mouth and thrashing about. Apparently, it was a daily routine so sister handled it while Mom patiently waited in the drivers seat. WTH?:confused: Then I'm at Wal-Mart the other day and some kid - about the same age as Damien above - is running around acting obnoxious and "slam dunking" random chosen merchandise into the cart. When he wasn't doing that, he was punching and tormenting his 3 year old sister who was held captive in the cart. He had dark circles under his eyes and looked just plain mean. I wanted to smack the you-know-what out of him right then and there. I'm sorry, but it's not a case of me, and others here getting old and being out of touch with the younger generation. There's too many Ritalin and anti-depressant poisoned adolescent boys sitting at home alone playing first-person shooter video games all day long. You cannot tell me that doesn't have a negative effect on the type of young adult they turn out to be, or the way the behave in society.
 
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I'm a big believer in taking kids out hunting and fishing. That's where I really connected to my own kids. It's where I hope to connect with my grand kids.

In nature, you cut out the foolishness. A buck is a buck it doesn't decide to be a doe. A coyote will kill and find sustenance in a rabbit. That doesn't make the coyote a bully or the rabbit a wimp. Every animal has its own tools. A coyote has his speed and teeth, a rabbit has his hole and stealth. A man has his brains. Weather your a rabbit, a coyote, or a man, you need a shelter, a coat, and something in your belly. The color of your car and the stupid beeping smartphone in your pocket is just junk. Camping out in the Cherokee National Forest, there is no Wi-Fi, and many times no cell coverage. Helps clear up what's important in a mans / ladies life real fast.
 
If you took "Call of Duty" off the market, the same gun banners would be frothing at the mouth screaming I have a right. Their lack of critical reasoning skills and self centered approach to life prevents them from recognizing the rights of others. They are useful idiots and have been educated as such.
 
I grew up....

If you took "Call of Duty" off the market, the same gun banners would be frothing at the mouth screaming I have a right. Their lack of critical reasoning skills and self centered approach to life prevents them from recognizing the rights of others. They are useful idiots and have been educated as such.

I grew up with violence on TV and in movies. The difference was that we knew it wasn't real. But these addictive virtual reality things make people think killing is easy, inconsequential and that people that are dead either aren't 'really' dead, besides just being plain desensitized to other people from constant exposure.
There's nothing wrong with video games, but if you see something controlling your life and feeling, you'd better step back and take a look at yourself. The problem now is that kids are addicted and programmed even before they can understand that anything is wrong with it. SO we as parents have to be a dominant force and involved a LOT, in order to get some sense into their head before that happens. We kept our son involved and busy with activities and sports and he got to the point where nothing we said mattered. After he grew up, we are finding out that he remembers what we told him.
 
the book "On Combat" by Dave Crossman has a couple of good chapters about kids , video games , TV and it is scary. the entire book is good reading also
 
rwsmith: "...I'm laughing to myself at how much they raised us five kids according to Dr. Spock, Yeah, right."

I can still feel that razor strop!!! :eek:
 
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