I was visited by possible new neighbors today....

USAF385

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I've been home just one day and I'm already causing trouble it would seem.

I was away for a while training for a new job in the Reserve. While away my brother in law called and informed me some folks stopped by one day while he was cutting my grass and introduced themselves. They are planning on buying a small 10 acre parcel of land next to me. He explained to them he wasn't the owner but chatted with them anyway. He told me they seemed to be nice people. A newlywed couple in their early 30s.

Well, I wasn't overly thrilled when I heard about this. I live in a rather secluded area. My nearest neighbor is just under one mile away. I like this... I like the privacy. I really don't want a new neighbor, but there's nothing I can do about it.

This morning I drove to where they'd likely build and realized it isn't really in a bad place at all. They'd be about a half mile away and live down near the dirt road that leads to my dirt road. They wouldn't be "intruding" on my privacy at all. Great! That put me in a good mood.

I came home and did some target shooting, worked out, went for a run, came back and got my supplies together to go to work tomorrow. After lunch I decided to go fishing up at my pond so I was getting my gear out of the my shed and into my truck when I heard a car come up my driveway.

I turned around and saw this Toyota Yaris struggling to make it up my steep, gravely driveway. I didn't recognize the car or the people when they got close enough for me to see them. It was a younger couple so I figured it might have been the new neighbors.

Yep... it was.

They got out and introduced themselves. I'll call them Dan and Jan. Real nice people. Married for two years. He is a dentist and she does medical billing. They're moving to the area from Binghamton NY. We talked for a few minutes before Dan noticed the 681 on my waist.

He pointed at it and asked if I "carried that thing around all the time". I told him that I indeed do carry a gun anytime I'm doing stuff outside. There's lots of critters and my land goes deep into the woods.

He than asked if that was me they heard shooting this morning. I told them yes, and when he asked if I was shooting yesterday... I said yes again (because I was).

"Do you shoot every day?" asked Jan.

"Pretty much every day I can." I replied.

"Is that safe?" she asked.

By this point my opinion of them started to change.

I asked what she meant. Safe for me? Safe for others? Either way the answer is yes. As long as nobody is trespassing there is no way someone could get hurt. (I fire in a safe direction into a big hillside which is all my land.. so.... very safe)

Dan then said something about the noise and I told him I don't shoot at odd hours. I then pointed out that there is a farmer not far down the road from where they'd build who does a lot of shooting as well.. as well as another guy on the other side of the valley.

Anyway we got off the topic of guns and chatted for a total of 10 minutes probably. I could tell Jan was uncomfortable after my .357 was spotted.

I still think they are basically nice. They don't really come off anti gun, but they definitely aren't comfortable with them.

It turns out this parcel of land isn't theirs yet, but they are seriously considering it. They're staying with an aunt who doesn't live around here but owns the land. I met her once when I was still in high school.

I told them that they might want to find out more about the area before jumping into rural living.

I think it was a good thing they met me. At least now they know beforehand that there are people in the area who shoot.
 
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Sound like city folks to me. :( And what is a Toyota Yaris???An electric car?As Charlie Brown would say:Good grief!!!
 
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You handled it well. You were honest & upfront about everything, so they should now know what they'd be getting into if they move in.

Sounds like you're going to have to do your best at trying to get them hooked on the shooting sports. ~ :)
 
Aloha,

Can we be your new neighbor?

Love to have gun owners who shoot as neighbors. Is 10 acres big enough and "safe" enough to shoot 30-06?

Give me advice on how to set up My range and how to shoot out from the back porch without driving the wife nuts with all the gunfire.

The Wife has a Toyota Tundra extra cab with the 5.7 V-8, cold air package and trailer towing....

The wife likes BBQ guns. Maybe we can have BBQs together?

We also have 3 Australian Cattle Dogs. Are there any big animals there that they shouldn't "bring home"?

Guess if you're carrying a 357, I can carry a M-57.....

Oops, just saw where you're at. Guess we're not going to be neighbors.

The Wife is FROM Minnesota and is thru with cold, snow and ice. So we will NOT be moving

Worse yet, I've never been in the fluffy white stuff and I know the Wife Will Not let me drive......

Her BIL has family in Pa. They have moved from Va to Tx last year.

We're not moving to anyplace where we have to learn Spanish either....
 
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Once some city prospects were looking at the acreage near ours. They said, "Oh, look at all those great tree houses!" I said, "They're not tree houses. They're deer stands."

They didn't buy the land.
 
At the risk of sounding like a crazy man, I would be in heaven living on 10 acres in NE Pa. Shooters all around would be even better. My wife and I are a little at odds with regards to rural living. I'm alot like USAF385. Would like my neighbors a bit of a distance from me. Shes more of a city mentality.
Pa. Is my first choice to relocate to. I'm on Long Island now, but Pa.is where I would love to wind up. Already have my PA. carry license. I'm retired, and my wife isnt too far away from stopping work too. AHH, would surely be a dream come true.
Tom
 
If you meet these folks again explain your sorry about the noise and intend to buy silencer/suppressors for all your guns including the full autos. Tell them as long as their building, plan no windows on the south side of the house. "Just to be careful". Mention the MA2 shoot every spring. Tell them about the Sasquatch that's carried off all the children for miles.
 
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Should have told them while they were there that shooting firearms is in the deed restrictions, and you were just doing your part as member of the community.

250 rounds per week minimum. :D
 
If they move in try to gently convert them into shooters. When they find out how much fun it is they might be the ones making noise. I've seen some pretty anti-types converted if done right.
 
If they move in try to gently convert them into shooters. When they find out how much fun it is they might be the ones making noise. I've seen some pretty anti-types converted if done right.

I HEARTILY agree with this. I can tell from your description of your first encounter with them that they are probably not the gunhaters we're always having to oppose. They are just among the many scores of millions in this country who are generations removed from guns, shooting, etc. The only experience they likely have had in this respect is listening to the steady drumbeat of news of criminals terrorizing innocent folks, stupid people accidently shooting family members, and so on ad nauseum. Can we really blame them for having to breathe the air, so to speak, polluted by the antigun media? I don't think so.

Here is what I would recommend: demonstrate to these folks that you are a normal, all-around good citizen. Have them over for dinner, dessert, coffee, or something. Let them get to know you enough to realize that gunowners are not to be feared or regarded with suspicion. Show them that you are a good neighbor. Offer to help when possible. Take an interest in them and their interests. People respond positively to this sort of thing, when it is authentic.

After they begin to realize that you are different than they probably thought when they saw your sidearm, ask them if they would be interested in learning to shoot. If so, let them taste the fun of it for awhile. Then, some discussions of the importance of being able to defend ourselves and loved ones if necessary might develop, and you may conceivably have protected a couple of precious human lives from future harm. And who knows, you may just have found yourself a couple of wonderful friends who will watch your back also.

This all may be foreign to you, as it probably is to a lot of forum members. But like great ethnic food which we taste for the first time, it(befriending possible new shooters) can become something we wonder how we lived contentedly without.

Keep us informed how this progresses. I am particularly interested in how it ends up. They may not respond as positively as we would like or as I have outlined above, but it's worth the effort.

Andy
 
If these professional people are moving from the city to escape grime and crime, you have a chance at turning them into gun advocates. If they're upwardly mobile new "land owners", forget it. Yaris is a positive sign.
 
If they drove a Yaris and had Glocks on their hips then you would definitely have a problem....... Shoo
 
Sounds like the new potential neighbors are trying to do their research. When I found this rural property in TN the first thing I did was scout the area and meet and talk with everyone I could. About fifteen minutes with one old boy who owns a lot of property adjoining mine and I was convinced I should buy. At least your potential neighbors do not sound like meth heads or pot growers.:D
oldogy
 
Previous posts expressed my opinion nicely.
If they move in, bake a fresh pie (any kind will do, pie is magical) and knock on their door and welcome them. If they are the liberal yuppie types they probably think of all gun owners as barefoot, uncouth, uneducated, rude, hick types. Show them you are a gentleman.
Then ask if they'd like to go shooting with you. Obviously use a .22 at first. Hopefully they'll have fun and you might make a new convert.
Or, on the other hand, you might chase them away. That might not be so bad either.
Good luck.
 
At least they made an effort to find you and try to be (possibly) neighborly. I have new neighbors moved in last week, two doors down. I'm in town and always want to extend a welcome and find out quick. Nice young family, he's a football coach and he had the nicest 6'10" friend along to help. Found out friend was in the pro's and they didn't need my assistance, tho offered. Nice to be nice.:)
 

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