If the pistol functions and shoots with decent accuracy, and is a range gun, why the urgency to replace the barrel?
As other posters have noted, bulged barrels are not uncommon and IMHO, pose no danger to the shooter.
Perhaps you should consult a metallurgist on this that perhaps he could make a more lasting impression on you about how unsafe it really is. At minimum, the barrel is certainly flawed and weakened.
Yes, it is YOUR own personal preference. But, what should you wait for ?
Possibly to wait for it to blow up in your face where you end up looking like "Jackie Boy" in Frank Miller's Sin City ... with the slide sticking out of your forehead ? Yes, that is theatrics (and good theatrics, I think). Further, I agree it is not likely to happen exactly that way but it could very well malfunction and blow up in your hand.
A few years back a member in California with a 52-2 wrote me for advice on his S&W 52-2. He experienced a squib load while not catching the squibb, had the same mishap.
He didn't realize he had just fired a a squib. The next round out it cost him a slide, a barrel, a barrel bushing, a trigger and a gunsmith to repair the gun and refit the new (used) slide, barrel and other parts.
The slide actually expanded and slightly twisted near the ejection port and it jammed in that position. He explained (ex-post facto) to me that would never happen to him again. That's how some of us learn ... the hard way.
This man was an avid, experienced, bullseye shooter of about 45 years old and IIRC a NRA instructor.
I, too, am guilty as far as when shooting an older guns, e.g. a NM3 or Schofield or American, after making sure it is mechanically sound all the way through and still considering .. what if the guy who loaded the ammo accidentally loaded a double charge ? That's why I load my own target ammo for 44R, 45 S&W Schofield, and .38-44 Gallery (New Model 3, not HD), my own mid-range (52, 52-1, 52-2, Giles Mid-range, Colt 1911 mid-range) and my own Giles Target .45 rounds that I also use in my S&W 25-2 and other .45 ACP revolvers. The latter is a H&G 200 grain SWC (Clark or Giles specs) with 3.6 to 3.8 bullseye). I also use this on all my .38 Target Revolvers except the .38-44 Outdoorsman that require a stronger charge to fly straight. For the New Model 3's I load on the lighter side, more toward the Gallery load ranges with smokeless conversion equation and specs set by Phillip Sharpe.
The old timer that taught mentored me to reloading quoted: "Follow Phil Sharpe's loads and you can never go wrong". 40 years later, I still find that advice accurate and logical. How much powder to you need to punch a hole in a sheet of paper or hit a steel silhouette target at 25 to 100 feet ?
Thinking ... with less regard for losing my hand than if I should damage a several thousand dollar revolver.
Yes, I'm exaggerating ... but not by much.
When it comes to safety, I feel this one is a no-brainer. Err to the side of safety and caution. Replace the barrel is my suggestion.
Would you rather try to save a few bucks or risk having an accident occur (which at this point would not be an accident but rather a calculated risk or visible evidence that impending doom may follow) in a situation where the danger has already manifested itself SO visibly ?
On a 9mm the only problems I've ever had was with some cheaper reloads that I had not purchased but were "come-alongs" with a gun or collection purchased, learning the hard way just to dump the reloaded 9mm ammo that comes to me second hand. New 9mm is so cheap sometimes it does not pay to reload, so, most 9mm pistols are being shot with full loads.
I ranted a bit here but IMHO, it is just plain foolish to look at that barrel to convince yourself anything other than it is an accident waiting to happen.