I'm going to offer a contrary opinion. J frames aren't nearly as robust in the boiler room as Ks, Ls, and Ns. And of those, Ns probably don't last as long because of the weight of the cylinder turning. I'm not saying that Js are going to wear out next week or anything like it. But depending on how you fire the gun, as in rapid double action, you may discover wear before you would expect it. Like 20 or 30 years instead of 50 or 60.
Even worse, depending on the vintage of the stainless, it may gall or smear. That is directed primarily at the very early guns, like those before the R prefix. Those won't break after the first box of ammo, either. Just be aware that they may not last a long as one made in the 1970s or 80s.
The kind of early death I'm discussing doesn't come from the ammo used. Sure, full house 357s can shoot a K frame loose over time. But what I'm discussing is internal lock wear, made worse if the gun isn't maintained with regular cleaning and lubrication (maybe it would even be smart to use a wonder lube, not bacon grease.)
The reason most of us laugh at these threads is that we don't own just one gun. Yep, I said it. Some of us actually bought a second one and shoot it as much as the first. And because of that, we tend to distribute our round counts. But if you don't, you'll start to have some minor lockwork issues before you'd expect it on a Model 10 with wadcutters. Those are generally expected to last 100,000 rounds.