I recently acquired a Shield 45 and put 109 rounds through it at my range. I used 230 RN's with relatively fast medium and slow powders:
fast: 700-X (4.9 gr); Reddot (5.0)
medium: Greendot (5.2)
slow: 800-X (7.0); SR4756 (7.0)
These loads are direct from the Hodgdon and Alliant manuals/web sites. The gun cycled all rounds with these loads perfectly. I managed to put all 109 into an 8" circle at 27 feet which is my criteria for accuracy with a short barrel defensive gun.
I have since acquired Speer 230 gr Gold Dot JHP's (#4483) and Sierra 230 gr JHP's (#8805). I've loaded the Speer's with Reddot but have not yet tested this combination. I've tried other bullet weights in my various 45's but have opted to stay with 230 for all range and carry loads.
My Shield 9 cycles both 124 gr and 147 grain XTP's without any issues. I prefer fast burning powders (700-X or HP-38) in my short barrel 9mm guns.
I'm not sure what the advantage is in using 185 grain versus 230 grain bullets in a defensive gun like the Shield 45. In a real scenario, either will do the job so I'd stick with what reliably cycles the gun. The Magtech 45 Bonded JHP's have excellent expansion into ballistics gel as shown by Luckygunner testing. Their testing in 45 ACP was done with a short barreled Kahr CW45 so results for the Shield 45 should be identical. I'd use these for carrying if they cycle your Shield 45 reliably:
http://www.luckygunner.com/labs/self-defense-ammo-ballistic-tests/#45ACP
Long barrel guns with long slides have significantly more mass than short barrel slides. This mass is what shoves the round into the chamber. Force = mass x velocity so with less mass you need more velocity to get the round into the chamber thus you need really stiff springs to get that smallish mass moving with sufficient velocity to generate the same force. Yes indeed, short compact guns can be a challenge to chamber a round.