I would disagree with those saying it handles like a 4". Can't. Basic physics at work. The longer barrel adds weight and mass to the front. The longer barrel will "swing" onto the target. A 4" barrel is like pointing your finger. A 2" barrel is like pointing your fist. It's easier to shoot a longer barrel accurately. The short barrel is for concealment, it can't handle as well as a longer barrel gun.
Many members will now contradict me saying the 2" handles just like the longer ones. Try both and you tell me who is correct.
I have carried a 2.5" M19 and for me it sucked. Too heavy for my comfort level (which is admittedly low) and the adjustable rear sight was absolutely unmanageable. It hooked on clothing every time I drew it. IMO the fixed sight gun is far superior for concealed carry. In an openly worn holster there's no problem.
Understand that a whole bunch of guys will now line up and start posting comments about how wrong I am, how I don't know what I'm talking about, and how the snubs with adjustable sights are perfect for carry and the sights cause no trouble at all. You carry a revolver with an adjustable sight for a while and let me know if I am crazy.
I still have my 2.5" M19. I bought it because I thought it was a really cool gun. I was right, it was a really cool gun. Still is. But it didn't work out at all for me as a carry gun. But I can't tell you what you will be happy with, only you can do that.
Oh, and no, the ejector rod stroke will not clear 357 cases.