My best friend died...

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In memory of Bucky: March 23, 1998 – April 23, 2009

He was born in Wittmann, Arizona. Other than that and the fact that his mother was a border collie, not much else was known about him. The little waif wound up at the Arizona Humane Society, with iris defects in both eyes and an abdominal hernia. While in the Humane Society's kennel, he also picked up a good case of kennel cough. In June of 1998, I spotted him and thought he was a pretty handsome dog. We found out that he was born the night before our Charley-dog died from ingesting a garden poison. That sealed the deal. He was meant to be with us.

I named him Bucky in honor of William O. "Bucky" O'Neill, who as a captain in the famed Rough Riders, died in front of San Juan Hill during the Spanish-American War in 1898, a century before. We had to quarantine him for several weeks to prevent our other dogs from getting kennel cough. The plucky little fella toughed it out sealed in our main bathroom. Then we discovered he had a hernia, which the folks at the Humane Society were nice enough to repair for him. From then on, he was known as our "Lucky, plucky Bucky." He had respiratory problems for all of his life, breathing a heavy rasp when he was excited or over-exerted. He, and we, accepted that as a way of life, and our plucky boy carried on in spite of all his disabilities.

His favorite thing to do when he wanted attention was to jump up on a couch and do his "charming dog" routine. He'd roll over on his back with all four paws in the air, looking at you upside down in a wall-eyed sort of way and grinning from ear to ear. He was begging for a belly rub, and because he was irresistible, he'd always get one from either Kaydie or me.

He was the most accomplished and endearing beggar I ever saw. He knew when you were finished at the dinner table, and then he'd automatically come over, sit down, and alternately look at you and the plate of leftovers he coveted. No barking, no pushiness, just genuine concern that with all the starving children in China or elsewhere, a dog as deserving as he could surely help you not to waste food. He was hard to turn down.

Bucky was one of the sweetest dogs ever. He'd romp with his little brother Joe and when Joe got too rambunctious, he'd put him down, lay a paw over him, and give him doggy kisses until he settled down. With great regularity, he'd come over to Kaydie and me and give us kisses just to let us know he loved us.

Every morning he took delight in sharing a cup of coffee with me. He liked it with milk and sweetener, and if there was a dollop of Bailey's Irish cream in it, he took special delight in finishing the few tablespoons at the bottom of my cup. He'd often give me a lick on the hand when he was through, as though to say "thanks."

Bucky had his own alarm clock. He knew just when to get up in the morning, when breakfast should be served to him and his pack, and when it was time for their evening dinner. He'd let you know with some charming grinning, a few kisses, and a waggy tail.

In spite of his gentle nature, Bucky was territorial and would protect our property when we were gone. I always felt the house was in good hands with him. He terrorized the poor mailman, who was reluctant to ring the bell when he had to deliver a package, as Bucky would sound like a snarling King Kong. His bark was worse than his non-existant bite, though. He was a really good alarm dog.

For most of his years, right up until the end, Bucky would hit the sack when I did, snuggling up in bed and giving me some good night kisses before he retired to the foot of the bed. He always woke up as our "happy dog in the morning," wagging his tail and eager to start the day with his doggy buddies. He was the personification of a great attitude.

His day started normally today. He was in good spirits, eating his breakfast, eagerly downing his morning "cheese" in which I routinely wrapped a baby aspirin for him to help with his apparent arthritis. In dog years, Bucky was about 77. I was on the computer this afternoon, and when I finished my e-mail, I called for Bucky, as I hadn't seen him for a while. I couldn't find him. He wasn't outside, and he didn't respond to my increasingly frantic calls. I went to the dog door in the back bedroom, and found him lying next to it. He didn't respond to my voice. He didn't respond to my touch. I was devastated. Completely devastated.

Our good friend, loyal dog and beloved companion is gone. He will be cremated and buried in our back yard. And he will be forever missed. Good boy, Bucky. There was never another one like you. My fondest hope is that we'll see you again someday on the far side of that rainbow bridge. Godspeed, buddy.
 
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In memory of Bucky: March 23, 1998 – April 23, 2009

He was born in Wittmann, Arizona. Other than that and the fact that his mother was a border collie, not much else was known about him. The little waif wound up at the Arizona Humane Society, with iris defects in both eyes and an abdominal hernia. While in the Humane Society's kennel, he also picked up a good case of kennel cough. In June of 1998, I spotted him and thought he was a pretty handsome dog. We found out that he was born the night before our Charley-dog died from ingesting a garden poison. That sealed the deal. He was meant to be with us.

I named him Bucky in honor of William O. "Bucky" O'Neill, who as a captain in the famed Rough Riders, died in front of San Juan Hill during the Spanish-American War in 1898, a century before. We had to quarantine him for several weeks to prevent our other dogs from getting kennel cough. The plucky little fella toughed it out sealed in our main bathroom. Then we discovered he had a hernia, which the folks at the Humane Society were nice enough to repair for him. From then on, he was known as our "Lucky, plucky Bucky." He had respiratory problems for all of his life, breathing a heavy rasp when he was excited or over-exerted. He, and we, accepted that as a way of life, and our plucky boy carried on in spite of all his disabilities.

His favorite thing to do when he wanted attention was to jump up on a couch and do his "charming dog" routine. He'd roll over on his back with all four paws in the air, looking at you upside down in a wall-eyed sort of way and grinning from ear to ear. He was begging for a belly rub, and because he was irresistible, he'd always get one from either Kaydie or me.

He was the most accomplished and endearing beggar I ever saw. He knew when you were finished at the dinner table, and then he'd automatically come over, sit down, and alternately look at you and the plate of leftovers he coveted. No barking, no pushiness, just genuine concern that with all the starving children in China or elsewhere, a dog as deserving as he could surely help you not to waste food. He was hard to turn down.

Bucky was one of the sweetest dogs ever. He'd romp with his little brother Joe and when Joe got too rambunctious, he'd put him down, lay a paw over him, and give him doggy kisses until he settled down. With great regularity, he'd come over to Kaydie and me and give us kisses just to let us know he loved us.

Every morning he took delight in sharing a cup of coffee with me. He liked it with milk and sweetener, and if there was a dollop of Bailey's Irish cream in it, he took special delight in finishing the few tablespoons at the bottom of my cup. He'd often give me a lick on the hand when he was through, as though to say "thanks."

Bucky had his own alarm clock. He knew just when to get up in the morning, when breakfast should be served to him and his pack, and when it was time for their evening dinner. He'd let you know with some charming grinning, a few kisses, and a waggy tail.

In spite of his gentle nature, Bucky was territorial and would protect our property when we were gone. I always felt the house was in good hands with him. He terrorized the poor mailman, who was reluctant to ring the bell when he had to deliver a package, as Bucky would sound like a snarling King Kong. His bark was worse than his non-existant bite, though. He was a really good alarm dog.

For most of his years, right up until the end, Bucky would hit the sack when I did, snuggling up in bed and giving me some good night kisses before he retired to the foot of the bed. He always woke up as our "happy dog in the morning," wagging his tail and eager to start the day with his doggy buddies. He was the personification of a great attitude.

His day started normally today. He was in good spirits, eating his breakfast, eagerly downing his morning "cheese" in which I routinely wrapped a baby aspirin for him to help with his apparent arthritis. In dog years, Bucky was about 77. I was on the computer this afternoon, and when I finished my e-mail, I called for Bucky, as I hadn't seen him for a while. I couldn't find him. He wasn't outside, and he didn't respond to my increasingly frantic calls. I went to the dog door in the back bedroom, and found him lying next to it. He didn't respond to my voice. He didn't respond to my touch. I was devastated. Completely devastated.

Our good friend, loyal dog and beloved companion is gone. He will be cremated and buried in our back yard. And he will be forever missed. Good boy, Bucky. There was never another one like you. My fondest hope is that we'll see you again someday on the far side of that rainbow bridge. Godspeed, buddy.
 
I'm terribly saddened to hear that.

I, too, would be devastated.

God Bless you and your family as you learn to cope with his absence.

Dogs do go to heaven, rest assured of that.
 
Dammit, I can't see the screen for the tears!!
Your tribute to Bucky is a wonderful statement of love for that dog.

I am so sorry to hear you lost your buddy.

I know the pain you are going through only too well.

Think of the wonderful times you two obviously had. You took a dog with a poor chance of making it and gave him a wonderful life of love and fun and he returned it it in spades.

He will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.

I am sure you know that there is another dog waiting out there for the chance to take care of you.
When you are ready, go find him. Bucky will approve.
 
That is a wonderful tribute to a wonderful friend, and I know it barely touches on how much Bucky means to you. Although it was such a shock, at least he had a peaceful passing at home, with his loved family.
 
Paladin85020,

Good eulogy on a fine friend. The circumstances are different, but the feelings are the same between me and some of my 'friends'.

The best thing I can add is from another poster:

""He will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.

I am sure you know that there is another dog waiting out there for the chance to take care of you.
When you are ready, go find him. Bucky will approve.""
 
Originally posted by PALADIN85020:
Our good friend, loyal dog and beloved companion is gone. He will be cremated and buried in our back yard. And he will be forever missed. Good boy, Bucky. There was never another one like you. My fondest hope is that we'll see you again someday on the far side of that rainbow bridge. Godspeed, buddy.

Wow, they truly do become a member of the family. Sorry for your loss.

We lost our family dog, a border collie mix named Jessie, last year. We got her for my oldest son when he was 5 and was a loyal companion for 13 years. It was a tough deal, especially for our 10 year old son who had always had her around.

We knew we could never replace Jessie and our 6 acre homestead seemed almost vacant with her gone. A year later, I ran across a buddy of mine who raises registered border collies and he had some 8 week old pups. We decided to go take a look at the puppies, and sure enough, one came home with us.

Our new family member, Champ, will never replace Jessie, but the homestead is not vacant any longer.

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Champ
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John,

I am so sorry to learn of Bucky's passing. Two of my dogs were born in 98 and are getting up there in age. Bucky had a good life in a good home with a loving family and it doesn't get much better than that.
 
I have lost 3 over time. A lot of other people here have lost dear friends. We know of this experience first hand and we grieve with you. Yours is a great loss. It will get better in time but you never forget.

Get a new friend. It seems impossible now but it truly helps. I resisted but my wife's wisdom won out. It helped quite a bit. Someone out there needs you, you can bank on that.
 
I am so sorry to hear about Bucky, I have a toy poodle that's 14 years old and we've had him since he was 5 weeks old.

RIP Bucky.
 
It is tough to lose a pet. It leaves an empty place in your life. They worm their way deep into your heart.
Butch
 
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