Good points again...The rest is between a man and his wife, no?
LOL. There's more at work here than just firearms.
For example, when my wife says "Fine," it's never fine.
If this was me, and I said, "Sweety pie, honey, love of my life, I'm going to buy you a .357 revolver," and she responded, "Fine," then I would trash the idea.
Let's be honest here, when a guy buys his wife a new car, a firearm, a trash compactor, or a similar what-not, he is actually buying the bauble for himself. The idea is that this "in her best interest," or a "good value," but that's just an excuse.
A woman approaches her husband with a model number, a ripped out catalog page, and several reminders. The concept is based on the reality that men never listen and usually buy the wrong thing, or forget all together.
Hardware concerns aside, did the woman consistantly verbalize "I want this particular .357 wheelgun" or not?
BTW, I've known my wife for 40 years, married for 28 years, and the proud recipient of 7 happy wedded years, setting a record among my friends. Trust me, if you think this is just another "firearms issue," you've already lost.