Welcome from Maine, your dash 1 is a fine gun, just stay away from heavy loads, stick to regular 240gr mags or better yet a midrange load, like a 250K at 950-1000, as for stocks most of us like the looks of a factory target, combat or something from one of the many custom grip makers, you just have to find what works for you, I tend to shy away from rubber grips even on the hard kickers, I feel all they do is give the gun a running start into your hand, another thing we all enjoy is photos, so put one up if you can,
This is a great forum, with lots of great people, good advice and tons of knowledge, so enjoy yourself and your new sixgun