I wish you the best of luck with your recovery! Do what the dr and wife says!
I am extremely happy to report I am still feeling great after one month! I do have some pain after standing but dr said it will take 16 weeks for the disk to heal, after being cut up and zapped with a laser I can buy that. Now I'm fighting to do away with the pain meds. Thankfully no withdrawals, just trouble sleeping now. Guess its to be expected after 12 years.
Take care of that wife, you have a good one. I have been truly blessed to have a supportive family around me to help me get through it. I was 18 when it gave out completely, I was p***ed off at the world nearly had a nervous breakdown after two years. Then about 8 years ago it got really bad, for about 2 months the pain was at 8-9 out of 10 and it completely broke my spirit and will to live. If not for my family I would have ended up a statistic, but thanks to my Mom for seeing what was happening and modern medicine I am happy and doing great. Plus having people with the same troubles to talk to helps.
Best of luck. If I may offer any advice please feel free to contact me.