Well, I'd see what a local gunsmith has to say about it, or if you have a chance to try a Lewis Lead Remover, see if it doesn't come out, before wondering whether the steel is starting to deform into the forcing cone.
The Lewis thing uses a soft(er) brass mesh to scrub out any lead/carbon deposits. The brass mesh is soft enough that it won't damage the forcing cone, but it's stiff enough to scrub out the softer lead. There's a well-known trick using a "Chore Boy" brass pad to do the same thing. A good solvent and maybe an over-night soak (I'm not sure how this is done) might help to break it up.
Another, usually NOT RECOMMENDED, way of dealing with leading is to shoot jacketted rounds after the lead rounds in an attempt to knock the lead out with the copper jacket. I don't recommend this, although I will say that I've tried it a few times and it's worked without any ill effects. Depending on the nature of the leading, however, I won't say that the idea will never cause any problems. Once I adjusted my loads, I didn't have any problems with leading and never felt the urge to try the jacketted-bullet-cleaning idea again.
What model are you experiencing this in, by the way?
You might have a roughly-cut forcing cone, although if the forcing cone is out-of-round as you say, then the problem probably isn't a roughtly-cut forcing cone.