While it sounds like lubrication, or lack of, is an issue, I would suggest reinstalling all of the factory parts and sending it back to S&W to take advantage of their free, lifetime warranty. My guess would be that you either have a weak recoil spring, or simething is out of whack (either because of the aftermarket parts or problems with reassembly). I have fired some plastic guns with aftermarket trigger kits, etc, and while they were pleasant to shoot, really did nothing for my ability to hit the target. I can miss just as wide with a Salient Arms pistol as I can with a stock M&P if I don't line up my sights. My personal experience is that the only aftermarket parts I have had 100 percent satisfaction with are Wolff (magazine) springs. Some of these aftermarket trigger enhancements ought to be left to a certified tech or gunsmith to install if you must have. And the gun should not leave their shop unless its working the way they advertise.