Congrats and enjoy. Your "new" days will fill themselves slowly but it will happen. Then you might wonder how you ever had time to work!!
I did too,I had ruined my back working as a carpenter/contractor for too longI have had a more difficult time than others I think. I retired because I needed to, not because I wanted to.
I loved what I did, but recognized I could not keep the pace that was required in a busy ER.
I have struggled with "Now what do I do?" It is getting better but I still have issues.
How did you retired guys handle this?
I do what I want, when I want and make no excuses to anyone. If a family member needs help with something, I'm right there.
How did you retired guys handle this?
That will get old quick.
Then you will start talking to your wife until that gets old.
Friend of mine told her husband that he could NOT retire until he had three friends with which to do stuff with (not including her) and at least two hobbies.
You're married so you won't have quite the time off as you may think.....
And from your other half's perspective:
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The first two years were really hard making the mental adjustment to not working.