Sad decision
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Losing a beloved pet is a tuff hit.
Hang in there.
Hang in there.
Not letting your friend suffer is the last great act of love you can offer to a critter that has offered unconditional love as long as he has been with you.
It's not easy, but it's part of the deal we make when take a critter into our heart.
I know you didn't want to break the news like this to your young Marine, but this won't be the last tough thing that she faces. She will deal with it with courage and the understanding that you did your duty just like a Marine's Mom would be expected to do.
Like others have said, when it's time, there's another puddy tat out there that is waiting desperately to worm it's way into your family and your heart.
It's not easy, but it's part of the deal we make when take a critter into our heart.
I know you didn't want to break the news like this to your young Marine, but this won't be the last tough thing that she faces. She will deal with it with courage and the understanding that you did your duty just like a Marine's Mom would be expected to do.
Like others have said, when it's time, there's another puddy tat out there that is waiting desperately to worm it's way into your family and your heart.
shouldazagged
Absent Comrade
I hurt for you, Cap, I really do.
It's the hard, painful part of the contract we make with our four-footed friends, and finally the loving thing to do.
You are not alone, though you feel that way.
Lots of prayers for you and your family outbound.
It's the hard, painful part of the contract we make with our four-footed friends, and finally the loving thing to do.
You are not alone, though you feel that way.
Lots of prayers for you and your family outbound.
nicky4968
Member
We have lost many over the last 40 years. Miss them all. But they look to you to make the right decision.
I could tell from your...
I could tell from your last letter that you may have had a hard decision to make. You're going to have to tell the lady marine sometime, but maybe now isn't the best time.
Condolences for the loss of your friend.
I could tell from your last letter that you may have had a hard decision to make. You're going to have to tell the lady marine sometime, but maybe now isn't the best time.
Condolences for the loss of your friend.
DaGOOSExyz
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I know how hard it is even when it's time and the right thing to do.
It's the last loving thing we can do for a pet we love and treasure.
It's the last loving thing we can do for a pet we love and treasure.
bgrone
Member
Good-bye cat / Hello Kitty
Quite some time ago a kitten wandered out of the timber behind our house and into our lives, several years ago she began going downhill and I took her to the vet. Her kidneys were failing and she was not enjoying life, the vet put her to sleep and cremated her. She now sits in a little box with her name on it next to my recliner where she like to look out the window. The next spring a male kitten wandered into my diesel shop and never left. Garfield is now a fat spoiled orange fixture in our lives.
Jim in Iowa
Quite some time ago a kitten wandered out of the timber behind our house and into our lives, several years ago she began going downhill and I took her to the vet. Her kidneys were failing and she was not enjoying life, the vet put her to sleep and cremated her. She now sits in a little box with her name on it next to my recliner where she like to look out the window. The next spring a male kitten wandered into my diesel shop and never left. Garfield is now a fat spoiled orange fixture in our lives.
Jim in Iowa
Autococker07
US Veteran
So sorry you have to deal with this, even though we all know its inevitable.
Outliving pets is tough, but take solace in the wonderful life you have provided him, and realize that what seems a horrible alternative to us, is actually a merciful gift to them.
Thank god he has a wonderful caring family. Prayers sent.
Outliving pets is tough, but take solace in the wonderful life you have provided him, and realize that what seems a horrible alternative to us, is actually a merciful gift to them.
Thank god he has a wonderful caring family. Prayers sent.
Doug M.
Member
Sorry to read this. It is the final duty we have to our furry friends.
jlrhiner
US Veteran
Sorry to hear this. I was rooting for him.
olcop
Member
Bad day
Nor could I, unfortunately, having a beloved pet means that you must deal with loseing them after a time, it's a shame that it had to come at a time when Baby Wrench is about to celebrate one of the best days of her life, but maybe one happy occasion will make the sad occasion easier to deal with.
olcop
Nor could I, unfortunately, having a beloved pet means that you must deal with loseing them after a time, it's a shame that it had to come at a time when Baby Wrench is about to celebrate one of the best days of her life, but maybe one happy occasion will make the sad occasion easier to deal with.
olcop
shaggist
US Veteran
Pet's Requests
Losing your pet is as hard as losing a child. But, like riding and falling off a horse, the best thing to do is get right back on board. The quickest cure I have found for healing the loss, is to get another rescue kitty, and give him/her the love you had for your lost one. Here are a few thoughts for pet lovers from the pet's prospective. The last one is especially poignant.
A Pet's 10 Requests...
1. My life is likely to last 10-15 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful. Please take time for me when you can.
2. Give me time to understand what you want of me
3. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being.
4. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainment, but I have only you.
5. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me.
6. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it.
7. Before you hit me, before you strike me, remember that I could hurt you, and yet, I choose not to bite you.
8. Before you scold me for being lazy or uncooperative, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I'm not getting the right food, I have been in the sun too long, or my heart might be getting old or weak.
9. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too, will grow old.
10. On the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there, because I love you so.
Losing your pet is as hard as losing a child. But, like riding and falling off a horse, the best thing to do is get right back on board. The quickest cure I have found for healing the loss, is to get another rescue kitty, and give him/her the love you had for your lost one. Here are a few thoughts for pet lovers from the pet's prospective. The last one is especially poignant.
A Pet's 10 Requests...
1. My life is likely to last 10-15 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful. Please take time for me when you can.
2. Give me time to understand what you want of me
3. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being.
4. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainment, but I have only you.
5. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me.
6. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it.
7. Before you hit me, before you strike me, remember that I could hurt you, and yet, I choose not to bite you.
8. Before you scold me for being lazy or uncooperative, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I'm not getting the right food, I have been in the sun too long, or my heart might be getting old or weak.
9. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too, will grow old.
10. On the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there, because I love you so.
OP
captorquewrench
Member
Rebekah...my youngest...has never known life without Ralph. With tears she told me she has to go with us.
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I cannot think of a more difficult decision to make than putting a loved pet down.
My prayers are with you,
Jimmy
My prayers are with you,
Jimmy
You will make the decision, and you will never regret it. You know what is right. I feel for you. I know what you are going through.
I gave you a 'like', not for the news of course but for how you're dealing with it. You really have no other choice. I've had to do it a few times and it NEVER gets any easier to make that decision.
Prayers for you and your daughters.
Prayers for you and your daughters.
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SW_shooter
Member
oh dang, that made my heart hurt. Only you know if she's ready to experience something like that.
When we took Oreo in the vet said he was in a lot of pain. We knew it was time. The vet let the Mrs hold him while she administered the sedative that made him sleep, then they took him to another room to give him the final injection. They said they had a policy of not doing it in front of the family. I've never had a vet say that before, was glad they did it that way.
I wish I had some pearls of wisdom or a comforting saying to quote, all I can say is Best Wishes and Prayers to you and the family.
