I really like my Shield 40, but I would STRONGLY recommend finding someone who will let you try theirs, or rent one at a range to be sure it suits you.
If you get the 40, as some have mentioned, you can convert it to a 9mm, and
actual conversion barrels should be available later this year. That's my plan, so I'll have a choice of ammo to use at the range, not because I expect the recoil to be significantly different, or want to use the 9mm for self defense. You
cannot convert from 9mm to 40 by just dropping in a new barrel and changing mags.
I took my wife's girlfriend to the range to try out several choices for a self defense gun. As a brand new shooter, I eased her into it first with a .22, then the FS M&P9, next the FS M&P40, and finally the Shield40. She did quite well with the Shield, and had no complaints about the recoil.
She DID NOT like the long trigger pull for my S&W model 66, which was really too big for eventual concealed carry anyway, but on the way to the range we stopped by the LGS so she could handle and get a better idea of some of the other available models and options. I don't know if she'll decide on a 9mm, 40S&W, or a .45 pistol yet. She wants to
play some more first.
