I have been a LEO firearms instructor since 1980. My former federal agency issued Model 60 and later 640 revolvers as back up guns. I carried a model 60 for many years, qualifying with it every quarter.
Now that I am retired, I went with a slightly different set up. I ride my motorcycle many days during the year. I wanted a carry piece that was small, light, and I could manipulate with one hand if the need arose while riding. I settled on a pair of no lock model 642's. They are light, and capable of firing +P ammo. I took them to my local gunsmith, and he did a polish job on the actions and replaced the springs with Wolff springs. The trigger pull on both are now butter smooth. They weren't purchased for match guns, so they are right at 6.0 pounds, but smooth. And since these are intended to defensive weapons, the 6.0 pound trigger pull will not even be noticeable under stress.
Yes the recoil is stiff, but not so bad as to make not want to carry one. I conceal the pair in pockets on both sides on my vest to accessible if need be while riding. I carry the Speer GDHP 135 gr. +P short barrel round in them. I take them to the range a couple of times a year to stay sharp, and I have had zero problems with.
As someone has already mentioned here, if the weight of a weapon is too much, you tend to not carry it. Here in Las Vegas, we have many months where the heat makes wearing a concealment garment a real pain. So I find the 642 to be a great EDC choice.