I would be surprised to find a fired .357 magnum case without some body expansion as you have described. Perfectly normal behavior for cartridge brass used in higher pressure loadings. Cartridge cases always expand to fill the chamber dimensions during the firing cycle; upon completion of the firing cycle the pressure drops and cartridge cases will spring back somewhat (which will vary considerable depending on chamber dimensions, the brass in use, and relative pressures of the loads used).
Every revolver is different, and every chamber of every cylinder is different; some will simply allow greater expansion of the cartridge cases than others. One of the first steps in reloading ammunition is resizing the cases, and that brings in other factors. Not all reloading dies are machined or finished to the same exact dimensions. Not every reloading press provides full ram travel without some springing within the frame, affecting relative positions of the die and shell holder under pressure. Not every shell holder is machined to the same dimensions.
For the past 40 years or so most reloaders of straight-wall cases (such as the .357) have been using tungsten carbide sizer dies, which feature a tapered entryway (of varying dimensions among the many makers and production runs) with an annular ring of tungsten carbide inserted to do the actual resizing (sans lubrication). The exact design, machining, finishing, and final dimensions of your die will provide slightly different results than just about any other die.
Finally, the process of resizing fired cartridges will always involve some movement of the metal making up the cartridge case, with the usual result that case metal is moved backward toward the case head during the pressures of resizing. Multiple uses of the brass can, over time, result in measurable changes in case dimensions caused by the movement of metal.
From the OP's description I can say with little doubt that one or more of the above factors are at play within his combination of revolver, brass, and reloading equipment. Whether the solution will be found in a change of cartridge cases, a change of sizing die and/or shell holder, a change of reloading press, or changes of the revolver's chamber dimensions remains to be determined by careful experimentation. I would recommend the following, in order:
1. try a couple hundred new cartridge cases.
2. try another resizing die and shell holder (ask a friend or two).
3. try another reloading press (ask a friend or two).
4. finally, if nothing else seems to provide satisfactory results, try a gunsmith experienced with revolvers for possible chamber reaming.