Just me and my shadow here, and he doesn't say a word.
Mike SC and AC Man said it well. This is the way.I could not agree more and this is where we are at in our older years.
You are EXTREMELY lucky.I hate going into a gun shop with my wife, it usually brings on low level arguments. If I look at a gun and she catches me, the next thing she says is " do you like it "? My answer is "no", "I already have one", or " I don't need it ". Her response is, " if you like it, go ahead and get it ". When I respond by repeating the previous answers, she normal give me a look of mild irritation and says " just go ahead and buy it".
I guess I should consider myself lucky.