With this additional information I would agree it is not bad powder. It was just hard to understand from your original post.
A squib rounds makes a distinct low no recoil sound. Phift or something like that.
We have all errored so do not beat yourself up. I would be more than miffed myself. I have the same gun. You are not injured so that is the main thing.
Anyway. sounds like what you mentioned, seating depth and crimping.
Hogdon online (IMR lists 3.7 to 4.9 of PB for the Hornady XTP bullet. The max load of 4.9 is still anemic for a 357 Mag of 984 FPS out of a 10" barrel!
Cartridge Loads - Hodgdon Reloading Data Center - data.hodgdon.com
158 GR. HDY XTP PB .357" 1.580" 3.7 747 18,800 PSI 4.9 984 31,700 PSI
So a combination of a light load, no crimp and unknown seating depth seems to be the dilemma.
Do you have any other powders? There are many that would work better in the 357.
Hope your repair is not to costly.
We all live and learn from our mistakes, I have made much worse.