This isn't much help, but nowadays I find the ammo 1) that works and 2) that I can actually find and buy.
Lucky Gunner says (I tried to stick close to what you specified):
.38 Special rounds
Federal 125 gr. Hi-Shok +P
Federal 130 gr. HST Micro
Hornady 125 gr XTP American Gunner
Remington 125 gr Golden Saber +P
Winchester 130 gr. PDX1 Defender +P
Winchester 130 gr. Ranger bonded +P
Winchester 130 gr. Train and Defend
.357 rounds (most overpenetrate)
Barnes 125 gr Tac-XPD
Barnes 140 gr XPB VOR-TX
Buffalo Bore 125 gr Barnes XPB Low Flash Short Barrel
Buffalo Bore 125 gr Barnes XPB
Buffalo Bore 125 gr Barnes XPB
Winchester 125 gr PDX1 Defender