There’s a graveyard on my property.

Kelly Green

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There is an old cemetery that sits abandoned on the southwest corner of my property. It was there before my great-grandfather acquired this section of land in the 1800's.

One of my chores as a boy was to periodically maintain the cemetery. My dad thought it disrespectful to let the graveyard lie in ruin. I actually relished the responsibility. Occasionally, my little sister would tag along to pick wildflowers and place them at each marker. As I worked, I would read the inscriptions on the stones, all from the 1800's, and speculate about these people and how it came that they were buried here.

The stone that fascinated me most was a marker with the name Mary. At the top was a symbol I had never before seen. Below this symbol were capital letters chiseled in an arc. Inside the arc of letters was the word "ARMY". It was years before I learned that the symbol was that of the Freemasons. It took longer still to decipher the letters. I'm still not certain about the meaning of the word "ARMY".

F N D O Z B T K C - AMRY was a degree conferred upon the wives, daughters, mothers or sisters of Freemasons. It was used predominantly in the southern states, from the 1850's through the early 1900's.

"F N D O Z B T K C" refers to the biblical verse from the book of John 12:15, "Fear Not Daughter of Zion, Behold, The King Cometh."

"ARMY" is still a puzzle. As I understand it, the word should be "A M R Y" which is an anagram for Mary. So, either the stonecutter made a mistake or it means something else.

I still maintain the cemetery as time permits. My dad once said that he was unaware of anyone from the outside visiting the gravesites and during my lifetime there has not been a single visitor. When my sister comes by, she will sometimes go up there. She says that the cemetery exudes a peaceful feeling and when her time comes she would like to be buried there. My wife and I have been thinking about doing the same when our time comes.

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Interesting. How many graves are there in the cemetery? Seems a shame that no family members/descendants visit. Maybe they're either all gone themselves, or so far removed that there aren't any left in the area. I believe the stone cutter did make a mistake and misspell the work AMRY. You're very thoughtful and respectful for continuing to do the upkeep on the cemetery.
 
Cool story. Thanks for the post.

Mary was 27 years old. People didn't live long back then.

I really enjoy studying history of the past couple hundred years. I also like ready historical fiction and watching old westerns.
 
What if Mary was in the Army during the civil war and died during her military service? We had women who did work for both the union and confederate armies during the civil war.
 
My wife is a genealogist and we have visited hundreds of cemeteries all over the country, many on private property.
Some are overgrown and some are cared for by the property owners. I think the best tribute that I heard from a property owner that had kept a little family cemetery (ours, not his) if perfect order was "Well, they're sombodies ancestors and I only hope someone is taking care of mine"...:)
 
theres a cemetery near my house thats from the early 1700's up to the early 1900's , my wife did some research on some of the people there and 1 was a captian of a war ship in 1700's and 1 was related to a president of the united states .. some cool stuff plus lots more history .,i will try to get some pics .
 
Interesting. How many graves are there in the cemetery?

There are 15 graves that can be identified by markers, headstones and parts of headstones. There may be more buried here that don't have markers. The markers are scattered about and there appears to have been no order as to the placement of graves.
 
There are 15 graves that can be identified by markers, headstones and parts of headstones. There may be more buried here that don't have markers. The markers are scattered about and there appears to have been no order as to the placement of graves.

The order/placement might have been related to digging conditions.
 
If only those tombstones could talk, what a story we would hear. Good for you for taking care of them.
 
I have a friend here in Indiana that bought a farm years ago. There was one spot in a field where there was a bit of a small hill. It through off his rows and one day he borrowed a Bob Cat from a neighbor to level it off. In the process he came upon a very rotted away wood casket and some bones.
I asked if he notified the Police. His response was "Heck no. This unmarked grave was 150-200 years old and I didn't want Police, and historical society shutting down my planting for weeks, or months." He reburied the bones in another location and called it a day. Can't say I blame him
 
Here In Austin, Texas at the intersection of highway 71 and 183 in the middle of the overpasses is a small grave plot. It is surrounded by the overpasses and has a few trees and a iron frence around it. It was there when the overpasses were built, I first saw it in '77 when I arrived at Bergstrom AFB and I checked last week when I went by. I have no idea who might be taking care of it, possibly the people that mow the right of way.

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One of our odd pleasures is to visit cemeteries in other places. My all time favorite is the one in Ouray, CO. In the past it was customary to include the cause of death. We have many cemeteries with old graves around here, but none with "died in snowslide" or one on the west side of Tomichi Pass "died in dynamite explosion".

I don't look for any religious connection with the past. Its just interesting to walk and look. Being respectful costs nothing. Its clear some of the buried had significant financial means. I'm guessing the impoverished ended up with wooden "stones" or markers, and are lost to history.

Good on the OP for his care of the place. It really doesn't take a lot of effort to make a big difference. Just watch for snakes! :) They like the places because of the lack of human traffic.

And for everyone else, if you see an interesting inscription, take a picture.
 
Back in the 60's I had a farm that had a small family cemetary on it. There were only 5 or 6 graves and all had the same last name. From what I guessed the mother of the family who died in 1898 was 104 years and 5 monthes old when she passed. The folks that bought the place from me built their home very close to the graves and the lady put up a picket fence around them and cared for it.

I have two great grandfathers buried in a small town cemetary that were both in the civil war. I think I am probably the last person that will tend those graves.
 
My wife and I visited Williamsburg a few years ago. At that time, I was an Entered Apprentice. As such, I recognized numerous Masonic symbols on graves dating back to the 1600's. Now that I am a Master, I am sure I would recognize many more of the Brethren. Always spent a moment of silence for my Brothers.

virtus junxit mors non separabit!
 
I have on on my hunting lease. There is no family left to maintain or care for it, so I mow it twice a year, and spend many afternoons visiting "my adopted family". There is just no excuse to let a cemetery be neglected.
 
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