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Congratulations on your daughter's upcoming marriage. I know you must be very proud and a bit nervous. I've given quite a bit of thought to your statement about the NY reload, and I think that what it boils down to is that to have a reliable 2nd gun to draw and use is better than spending the time to reload your primary gun. Yes, ideally, your NY reload should be a name brand, top quality gun. But I think the reliability issue is paramount, followed very closely by your willingness, and/or ability to carry a second gun. As an example, my primary gun is usually a 432PD in .32H&R Magnum. My NY Reload is a .32ACP Seecamp. As you may know, the Seecamp has no sights. Larry Seecamp, the inventor, acknowledges that this is the type of gun you shove up someone's nose before you pull the trigger. It is truly a last-ditch type of gun. I can manage hits on a full sized FBI-type target with it at 3 yards - that's aiming at center mass, and I wouldn't dream of trying to get hits any further out unless under the most extremes circumstances. The point is, the Seecamp is reliable, and small, so it's very easy to slip into a pocket, so it's always on me. My point is, you may not have to spend much, if any money on a NY reload. You may just need to look at your current arsenal and do some thinking, or re-thinking. As an example, if you have a snubbie .22 caliber revolver made by a company other than Colt or S&W, or ____, or _____, but it goes "bang" every time you pull the trigger, and it's concealable, well, there is a NY Reload candidate for you. I'm not a LEO, and never have been so maybe someone from that community may want to weigh in an provide a better, or more accurate answer. This is just my $0.02 worth. Best of luck to you and your family - have a lot of fun at the wedding.
Best wishes,
Dave