Actually the Model 27 and 28 had right hand thread ejector rods, the 27-1 and 28-1 and newer had left hand threads.
Also, the 38-44 HD and OD cylinder will be the same length at the front as the 357 cylinder, and although the recessed .357 cylinders are longer at the rear that extra length doesn't make a difference in the frame window as the case head is in the exact same spot.
As for the different ejector rod shape if you use the newer style with a knurled end it should lock up without any interference.
The issue will be fitting the yoke arm, barrel forcing cone gap and of course fitting the hand to the cylinder and getting it in time.