I guess I thought we were "poor" growing up, but we had a car, and a TV set, couple of radio's. The house was always warm, and there was always something to eat. Might not have been what I wanted, but there was something. If I made the mistake of turning my nose up at something my mother fixed, she'd tell me to "Go to the hotel John Marshall if you don't like it." It was a long time before I realized there really WAS a "Hotel John Marshall." During the summer we did eat many a 'mater samich' but that was because we wanted a fresh tomato sandwich (with DUKE's mayonaise).
I suppose I had it good really. I was the only boy. I had the freedom of the woods, fields, and waters growing up. I don't know who's woods, waters and fields they were, but nobody seemed to care really. My four sisters were pretty well stuck at home helping my mother. Nobody expected me to cook, clean, and can. I might have to mow the grass once in a while, but it was darn seldom my days with no school didn't involve a shotgun or a fishing rod. I had a room all to myself. It was small, but it was "mine." My sisters shared a room, with two in each room.
We never walked any further to school than the end of the driveway. A bus picked us up. Of course the school was twenty-five miles away.
When I got older, I got hand me downs from my grandfather, uncles, and father, but being the only boy, I didn't have any older kids to get handed down from. My sisters all wore hand me downs, and played with hand me down toys. I know I wore worn out shoes, and pants with holes in the knees, but I don't remember ever being cold in the winter, so I must have had new shoes and a coat when needed. I remember my mother putting iron on patches on my pants. They'd stick for a while, but after a few washes, they'd start to come off, then she'd sew them on again.
But even though I though we were "poor." I knew there were others in the area who were worse off than we were. Some of those people probably looked at us as the rich folks up the road.
How poor were we? Why we were so poor we got an orange for Christmas. ONE ORANGE...and there were five of us!."
My kids didn't believe it either.
