Mrs 47knuckle had the same problem. Took her to a gun store and had her try a S&W 380 EZ. She had no problem racking the slide, so she is now the proud owner of one.
For my BG2 the Talon Rear Slide Grip made a big difference in my ability to rack that little buggar.
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At my older age my grip and hand strength has gone south. I use this and it really helped after about 30 days of religiously working it in each hand once a day for about 20 minutes.
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I have read many posts about how hard it is to rack a gun or seat magazines, etc... I look to myself in trying to identify the root of the issue.
What in my life do I do to have strong arms and strong hands?? Why would a little tiny woman's gun like a .380 defeat me? The reason is, my hands have zero callouses, my gripping strength is worthless, my arms are tooth picks because I live like a modern city dwelling man. My brain is strong but my body is weak......because having arm and hand strength is not required for daily life.
I don't lift anything heavier than a 40 pound bag of dog food. My gripping strength is challenged only by opening a jar of jelly. I can't do 4 push-ups or hang from a monkey bar for more than 2 seconds. No WONDER MY GUN SPRINGS DEFEAT ME AND I DON't SHOOT WORTH BEANS.
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I understand that I'm about to commit heresy and be burned at the stake. If your revolver has a hammer, you can always cock the hammer for a lighter trigger pull in worst case. Better than a harsh word and a mean look and better than struggling to shoot a gun that just makes noise and sends the round off down range to god knows where.It has been mentioned above, but I will reinforce the wisdom of the suggestion for senior citizens (or any upper body strength challenged individual) to consider getting a revolver. None of the above worries seem to apply. I use a J-frame Mod.49 in a Mika pocket holster. Yes, a J-frame is five rounds of .38 Spl. (what I would use), but that is enough to get you through two average gunfights.
I suggest this after carrying a BHP, a full size 1911, a sub compact SIG 1911, and others I cannot recall. A .38 Spl. with wadcutters satisfies all my needs now as I am no longer on course to vanquish the world of crime when I leave home; simply to defend myself or a loved one should the need arise.
Blessings to all, but please carry something that you do not have to struggle to use, and practice with it until you have a decent level of confidence putting it to use.
.............. If your revolver has a hammer, you can always cock the hammer for a lighter trigger pull in worst case. Better than a harsh word and a mean look and better than struggling to shoot a gun that just makes noise and sends the round off down range to god knows where.
You forgot to mention the MOST important fact.You are right, being able to shoot SA or DA at my option suits me best, and a shrouded hammer prevents snags on clothes. That's why I carry a Mod. 49. It is also steel, giving me some weight to hold on to. I do not like the lightweight versions that hurt my wrist with each shot.
If you can determine an honest 'need/want list' for yourself, I would wager that there is a good revolver solution for you. And there really is no need to spend big bucks on a 'new' piece, as there are tons of gently used ones out there too.
Again, just commit to learning how to use it. They are not magical things that spring into action at your command. You need to learn to work together.
It has been mentioned above, but I will reinforce the wisdom of the suggestion for senior citizens (or any upper body strength challenged individual) to consider getting a revolver. None of the above worries seem to apply. I use a J-frame Mod.49 in a Mika pocket holster. Yes, a J-frame is five rounds of .38 Spl. (what I would use), but that is enough to get you through two average gunfights.
I suggest this after carrying a BHP, a full size 1911, a sub compact SIG 1911, and others I cannot recall. A .38 Spl. with wadcutters satisfies all my needs now as I am no longer on course to vanquish the world of crime when I leave home; simply to defend myself or a loved one should the need arise.
I will although admit my feeling of triumph years ago when a very upset trucker got out of his cab with an axe pick handle and charged my car in gridlock traffic. In mid-swing he found himself looking down the bore of a full size Colts 1911. He stopped in his tracks, said "My mistake, sorry." I said "That's great, now give me that piece of wood and get back in your cab." He did, and all was well resolved with no shots fired. I still have his stick here somewhere. I digress.... I wish I was still young enough to carry a nice 1911, but I am not. J-frame all the way. If need be I may throw a speed strip in my other pocket just for insurance. But need has never been.
Blessings to all, but please carry something that you do not have to struggle to use, and practice with it until you have a decent level of confidence putting it to use.