"Popular" - No accounting for taste

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This forum is a comfortable place, where a crowd of the 'usual patrons' hang out most days. We no doubt have many regulars who 'lurk' at the 'corner tables in the far recesses of the room' that don't participate much if any, but seem to like hanging around just to watch the show. Kinda like a friendly neighborhood bar with a big gorilla of a bar tender/bouncer that keeps those with big mouths, big egos, and small self control in check . The kind of place like "Cheers", where everybody knows your name.

We like what we like, variety they say is the spice of life, and I enjoy the esoteric knowledge shared by many on the various many subjects that crop up, as well as the humor and the general discussions that are daily fodder for participation.

One of the regular features that has become a staple for a lot of us is Narragansett's (Pete) daily contributions to the Lounge of "Humor" for the day that has evolved into a format of daily comics, memes and pithy sayings that generally present five offerings. It's become customary for these to be judged and ranked by those at the bar as to the 'winners' of the day. (a tip of the hat to Pete for the time, effort, and diligence it takes to put this up daily)

Not always to my advantage and maintenance of a good reputation, my sense of humor has been known to be extreme and one might say even bizarre at times - a warped outlook to be charitable. But as previously stated, we like what we like and variety can be healthy. But we all have things we favor and many times the things we like personally may put us in the minority.

Took that path through the weeds to observe that if I were making a pronouncement of what seems to be the most popular (hands down) of Pete's daily presentations , cartoonist Gary Larson's offerings would take the prize. Those liking his talents are not in the minority here. But what brought me down this path was the idea of what makes "popular" popular in the things that entertain most of us, the majority, the things more often than not most of us find funny. It has to be commonality - things we see in it that reflect people we know, situations we're familiar with, absurdities of life that are all around us, or the guy we see in the mirror every day.

As a musician I'm painfully aware of the false processes used by record companies, producers, advertisers and marketers to force feed us what THEY want to be 'popular'. It may be 'popular', but only to a minority willing to spend money for it while many of the rest of us sit back in amazement at what the culture defines as "popular" in this day and time.

Gary Larson, the Beatles, John Wayne, Robin Williams, Bach, Hemingway . . . . all "popular" well past their most active and prolific output, indeed past their living existence in many cases. The airwaves are littered and clogged with "popular" "artists" these days that will fade quickly into oblivion and obscurity when their 'moment' has passed and the next 'new thing' comes along. I personally somehow doubt "Lil' Nas-X", Britney Spears, Jimmy Kimmel, or Beyonce' or Kim Kardashian will be remembered other than as anachronistic footnotes one hundred years from now if the world is still here.

We like what we like and it sheds light on the saying, "there's no accounting for taste". I guess my point is that for things that endure they stand apart from our fickle and fleeting choices that prove to simply be matters of 'taste'.
 
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If you are famous for being famous, you really ain't! Even Lee Harvey Oswald and Sherhan Sherhan will be famous while the earth is covered in the dust of the "Famous Nobodies."

My kids are in their 40's now, and I ask them who some famous nobody is and the teenage grandkids will answer. Those of us with grey hair or at least grey roots, realize; People that work seriously at raising a family, running the business, or just trying to get by, don't waste time on which Hollywood Nobody is sleeping with, having a sex change, or is on spouse #11.

Ivan
 
The stuff that was popular when I was young is better than the stuff that is popular with the young now. I for one am shocked that a S&W forum member would have issues with modern musicians such as Lil Nas X and Beyonce! :D

I think we're going to see plenty of popular musicians from the Beyonce-current era standing the test of time (and Beyonce will likely be one of them, even if I'm not a big fan of her music) and plenty of others being forgotten, just as how a lot of the music from the 60s, 70s, and 80s has been forgotten while we hear the same few songs constantly on the oldies stations.
 
Every generation is sure that the generations that followed them are going to hell in a handbasket, especially in terms of popular music. I grew up at the end of the era of the crooners, like Sinatra Tony Bennett, and even Johnny Mathis in that category. They sang songs with lyrics that touched my heart if not my soul. Not like what I here my grandkids listening to today. But I accept that they too will likely lament what their kids someday call popular music.

Personally I think I allowed myself to evolve with the times, at least up until I was in my 30's. I still play CCR and Talking Heads at home somedays.
 
Well at least the Oscar nominating committee gave "Barbie" the recognition it deserves. Which is very little.

A few weeks ago, I was astounded to see that Barbie was going to be shown on HBO, even though it was still playing in the theaters, so I decided to watch it. I had more interest than the average Forum member in watching, because one of my best friends in high school (now deceased) was president of Mattel during the 1990s. I think he would have laughed his head off at Will Ferrell (as Mattel CEO) and his team of executives. Overall, I thought Barbie was pretty clever and amusing for the first two-thirds of the movie, but got annoyingly preachy during the last third. I'd say watch it if you have nothing better to do, (or your granddaughter insists), but otherwise, don't go out of your way.
 
But I accept that they too will likely lament what their kids someday call popular music.

Maybe, maybe not. I appreciate most all kinds of music in certain examples but having lived through a period that was undoubtedly a watershed in music history, I shudder to think things could sink much lower than a lot of what passes for "music" these days ….😒
 
What kind of music you enjoy isn't a matter of choice. I'm a geezer and one of my favorite groups is the now defunct Soundgarden. Not exactly considered old folks music but I like it. The untimely death of lead singer Cris Cornell was a tragedy. But I also like the original singing of the great Roy Orbison. I grew up listening to Country and maybe that's why I despise it today. Music preference is very subjective so there's no reason to criticize the choices of others because they are not yours.
 
We also saw George Jones and Loretta Lynn at Silver springs. We appreciate much of older music. Was raised on classical and like to listen to certain classics, Vivaldi being one.
 
The musicians pass thru like the lightning,
and then they say goodbye.
Great songs/music is forever.
Old MacDonald is ancient. :D
The grandkids and their cousins know that after
a hug, it's an Oh! Susanna sing-along with the harmonica.
Then La Valse Blues.... 'cause love is a waltz.
 
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Thus the reason many of the old bands from the 60s and 70s are still out performing in one iteration or another. They still have a paying audience. We've seen a ton of them from America to ZZ Top.
Blues acts like Quinn Sullivan, Ally Venable, King Solomon Hicks, Christone Kingfish Ingram, Gabe Stillman and Marcus King are all young (under 30) guitar prodigies respectfully carrying the torch for the musical greats who preceded them and forging their own paths at the same time. IMHO, it's a great time to go and enjoy classic and new live music. We do as often as we can. (246 bands since 2021)!
 
We are more alike than we are different.

Think about how it was when you were in school, and thought that you were the only kid being picked on. What you didn't see was that all of us were picked on. And, at the same time, we found others to pick on.

The human experience is pretty much the same for all of us, whether we want to admit it or not.
 
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