Top strap erosion is nothing to worry about. You'll get flame cutting to a point and then it's a non-issue.
The bbl's face and forcing cone on the other hand will give out at the +/- 100,000 round mark using a mix of 38spl target loads up to hot 357mags. The timing will need to be redone at the same time.
As far as primers go, they can indirectly affect erosion due to unburnt powder. A lot of revolver owners change out springs, shim, stone/polish their trigger groups. That's all fine and dandy until you start getting lite strikes or are primer specific to get the revolver to go bang when you hit the loud button.
A chronograph is a beautiful thing:
I test 22lr firearms with it. I use a known lot of ammo +/- 20fps ES's and test firearms with it. If a new/new to me firearm uses that ammo and ES's over 20fps I know that the firearm needs fp/bolt/trigger work. The same thing goes for centerfire firearms/revolvers. If you're getting lite fp hits it will show up when using a chronograph. Lite fp hits ='s inconsistent ignition or more specifically, unburnt powder. The slower the powder or the harder to ignite powder. The more unburnt powder affects not only your target, but you also get more wear from sanding & secondary ignition of that unburnt powder.
I've showed this chicken scratch of a target before. I was playing around with a 686 @ 50yds using 2 different bullets and 2 different powder charges (5.5gr/6.0gr) of the same powder.
Consistency ='s accuracy. And a consistent fp hit is part of that consistency. That may be a fast-burning powder but I use small rifle primers for all my 357mag/9mm & 223 reloading. Those groups were shot in a 686 using small rifle primers.
A 586 bbl with +/- 75,000 rounds shot thru it after a rebuild.
That bbl has had the face set back and forcing cone recut twice before. The lands gave up the ghost finely (drive side rounded/non-drive side still has a sharp edge).
The cylinder on that revolver had steps flame cut into the chambers.
The frame was still good on that 586 so I had a used cylinder and bbl installed on it (4" bbl). I shot it for a while and ended up selling it. Just don't like a 4" bbl'd revolver.
Anyway, the top strap survived on that 586 while the bbl and timing had to be redone twice. Along with another +/- 75,000 rounds after that 2nd rebuild.
99%+ of the bullets I shoot are cast bullets. They ranged from 115gr to 170gr. And were loaded with anything from mild to wild in 28spl and 357mag cases.