The problems with the K frames and shooting a great deal of full power ammo are not BS, but they do have to be considered in context.
I suspect you will find that current factory .357s are nowhere near as rank as the old school stuff such as from the 70s for example. It was also about that time that LE learned that practicing with .38s and then loading up with .357s was not a good idea (see, among other things, The "Newhall" incident, which was also had tactics issues, like poor stop tactics, not using long guns until too late, etc). About the same time, there was the start of more litigation about police shootings, some of which were not consistent with what we would do today. Even then, however, misses were bad stuff. That drove a LOT more training, and shooting a steady diet of hot ammo is hard on anything, including the shooter and the budget.
It is unlikely that as a private purchaser you would be able to spend enough on ammo to do any real damage to the revolver, and depending on your age and physical tolerance, even if you can, you are not likely to.