Everyone (me included) suggests you reload the stuff. Just be aware that its a pain. Its got long, weak cases. I bet I've ruined more brass just reloading a few hundred of them than all the other calibers combined. And I've reloaded 10s of thousands between 9mm, 38 specials, 357s and 44s.
My problem seems to be centered on getting the case to sit straight in the shell holder and then start the bullet straight. If its not square, it'll crumple the thin brass.
I posted a link here a while back, like maybe 2 years, to a guy with the components who didn't want them. I bought his box of 2,000 bullets, Remington soft points. I agree with the poster above who uses 3.0 of Bullseye. Kind of like shooting a 22 low velocity load. No recoil at all to speak of, just enough to let you know it went off.