I'll partially agree , and partially disagree .
From a Medium Frame 2.5- 3 inch .357 , full power .357 is certainly far from impossible . Sure , you can tell something just went off , but if your skill level and state of practice is sufficient to control those loads in the coresponding 4 inch gun , the 2.5 inch ie only incrementally more challenging . ( If you do comparison , and prefer to use a 110gr or mid level 125 , that's also valid) .
OTOH , even in the days when I practiced religiously , and at the top of my game , a .38+P 158gr in an Airweight J frame was the extreme ragged edge or rapid control ( and level of hand pain) for me . ( And at the the I also did 180gr .44mag from a snub , more pleasantly than the 158 in Airweight) .Thank you , I'll pass on .357 J frame . M940 is my desired upper level for actual J frame .
* For Me * , the crossover point is a Ruger SP-101 being smallest practical revolver for full power .357 .