I finally settled on the Dillon roll crimp die, because it appears to me to produce a smooth crimp that nearly follows the profile of the crimp groove in the LSWC's that I shoot in my 38. I crimp just to the point where I can barely feel the edge of the case mouth with my (chewed up) fingernail. If I crimped any harder there would be no way to judge what I was doing, right?
If you load range brass you have to be careful to discard short cases. I typically load 250 rounds in a batch, and see about 5% short cases. 38 brass is really thin, and it seems to just slowly disappear!
I bought a total of FOUR crimp dies before I settled on the Dillon... I just had to be sure that I was getting what I thought was the right crimp. As several people stated already, do NOT seat and crimp in one step unless you don't much care where the bullets are going to go.
As for not crimping at all, I could probably get away with that. I use the Lyman M die for expanding, and the Redding "Pro" die for seating, and I can't budge the bullet by pressing it hard against my bench. But I'd be terribly embarrassed if a bullet weaseled out and jammed up my action and made me have to pack up and go home pretending that I was satisfied and done shooting for the day after driving 40 minutes to the range.
I confess that I've only been loading for a year. But I load single stage, and I load an hour or two every day to keep myself in bullets, so I think I know all the ways that you can f*** up. I have a box with 600 screwed up 45 ACP rounds sitting on my bench to remind me to be certain of what I am doing and not go crazy at the lever.
Oh, almost forgot. You may find that following the seemingly most sound advice produces utterly dreadful results. It all comes down to the hands of the shooter, and if you always, every single time you pull the trigger, pull the gun a tiny bit to the right, nothing you do on the loading bench will fix it.