I have the M57 and 629-6, both 6” barrels. The 44magnum hurts my lame hand much more than the 41 magnum. Wood stocks on both. I feel shooting the 44 is more accurate in my hands than the 41. (That’s only 25 yards.) The 44 Special in the 629 are pretty much equal to the 41 mag when I actually played with both back and forth. I never recorded the ammo weights, etc., but I don’t reload. The 44 magnum is definitely more accurate than any other revolver I own, besides my K22, for about 3 cylinders.
Yes, to me the 41 seems a tad easier to shoot at the range.