A sad lesson

Doug M.

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I received this from a mailing list to which I belong. The italicized portion at the end is the commentary of the list owner. He’s right (and was copied on the email version I sent to friends so he can read my additional comments).

Just Because You've Got a Gun: The 24-year-old tugboat deckhand who was shot dead in Ocean View [Norfolk VA] on Tuesday was pointing a gun at his killer and trying to stop a robbery, his brother said. Pedro “Pete” Cain had been hanging out with some neighbors at his apartment building in the 9000 block of 1st View St. when a woman came up to the group and asked to use someone’s phone, 20-year-old Jonathan Cain said Friday. They told her they didn’t have one she could use. And Pete Cain, suspicious the woman might be casing the place, ran back to his apartment, got his handgun from a drawer, loaded a clip and returned to his neighbor’s. After coming back, a man wearing a bandana pointed a gun at them, Jonathan Cain said. So Pete Cain took aim at the would-be robber and ordered him to put his gun on the ground. The man seemed to comply, slowly lowering it. But then he jerked up and fired, hitting Pete Cain in the stomach, his younger brother said. Jonathan Cain said he called 911 and put pressure on his brother’s wound, telling him it was only little. But, Cain said Friday, the bullet had ricocheted inside him, hitting vital organs... (I seem to recall a line from a Clint Eastwood movie: “There's a time to shoot and a time to talk.” Action beats reaction. I don't know whether the late Pete Cain had the option of taking cover before challenging the apparent robber.)
Norfolk man was trying to stop a robbery, brother says. He pointed his gun, but his killer fired first. | Courts & Crime | pilotonline.com

More from Doug: Further, I note that while this was a civilian who was killed by a violent criminal, it is also an excellent example of why the lunatics and moonbats are incorrect when they assert cops are too quick to shoot. This was not a time to talk at all – the moment that Bandana Dude made his appearance and did ANYTHING consistent with being a violent criminal, he should have been shot, as many times as it took to stop his actions. This man died for the same reason cops die – not aggressive enough soon enough, and this particular example of the criminally feral could tell that the victim was not prepared to not be a victim.

Other lessons: 1) There is no excuse for being unarmed at any time or place if you can lawfully be armed. Cooper was right: one cannot make an appointment for an emergency. Remember, a pistol is what you carry when you have no specific reason to expect a problem. If you have such reason, and are not taking a long gun (rifle, or a shotgun with slugs), you are not smart at all.

2) Better answer – when this woman came up and acted as she did, and gave that impression, it was time to be elsewhere. Right now. Not in 5 seconds. NOW. With alacrity. Just as with the shooting, hesitancy is fatal, and portions of seconds kill. There was no need to be at that place – cops have to look for trouble, actively seeking bad people and imposing control on their actions. I don’t do that any more. When I did, I almost always took a long gun out if there was an indication of potential violence. Now – phooey. I can be elsewhere and avoid the mess.

In passing I also note that telling her to get away from you and your group, in no uncertain terms, was also an immediate action option (hurt her feelings, who cares?; she has no right not to be offended). It is also a test – anything other than immediate compliance is an indication of a serious problem, and you need to take action. Disrupt the OODA loop.
 
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Doug, I agree with everything you wrote. It was a needless death of a good guy. It all went really wrong when the happened: "So Pete Cain took aim at the would-be robber and ordered him to put his gun on the ground.". Bad decision. Better to shoot the bad guy. Better to go on trial for killing him than have him go on trial for killing you. In the Corps we had a simple rule. When faces with a hostile gun no warnings. Just kill the *******.
 
As the old saying goes - better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6. Always practice situational awareness and be smart out there.
 
Ocean View is a cesspool. I think the latest is that 4 people have been charged with murder in this incident.
 
, Other lessons: 1) There is no excuse for being unarmed at any time or place if you can lawfully be armed.

When you drive to the grocery store, there is no excuse for not wearing a NASCAR fireproof suit and helmet. :) After all, the odds of being in a car accident are dramatically higher than the odds of being the victim of a violent crime.

The crime rate in my suburb is so low that concealed carry here would be an act of stupidity/paranoia.
 
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When you drive to the grocery store, there is no excuse for not wearing a NASCAR fireproof suit and helmet. :) After all, the odds of being in a car accident are dramatically higher than the odds of being the victim of a violent crime.

The crime rate in my suburb is so low that concealed carry here would be an act of stupidity/paranoia.

Umm...until it does happen in your quiet little suburb. Lawful concealed carry is never an act of stupidity. IMHO.
 
When you drive to the grocery store, there is no excuse for not wearing a NASCAR fireproof suit and helmet. :) After all, the odds of being in a car accident are dramatically higher than the odds of being the victim of a violent crime.

The crime rate in my suburb is so low that concealed carry here would be an act of stupidity/paranoia.

Yeah, that's what people were thinking in Brookhaven, Miss. Population 12,700 when this guy killed 8 people including a responding officer.
Mississippi shooting: 8 dead, including deputy; suspect says 'I ain't fit to live' | Fox News

Or Cottonwood Heights, Utah. Population 34,166 when this guy was captured by an alert police officer. Suspect in Utah armed robbery spree caught after cop spots him during doughnut stop | Fox News

More has happened in "sleepy" little towns than most people realize.

Go armed. Refuse to be a victim. The world doesn't need any more dead hero's.
 
Once Again

I repeat this ancient wisdom every few weeks. In order of importance, what separates the winners from the losers is mindset, judgment, tactics, marksmanship and firearm. The victim did not have the mindset to immediately do what was necessary, resulting in faulty judgment and poor tactics, costing him his life. This was a tragedy. He could have had the best handgun and ammo imaginable, one "approved" by most of the forum members. Yet, the handgun never entered the equation because he died before getting a chance to use it.
 
I was told as long as a person is just talking he probably isn't about to do anything. A BG with a gun is no time to try talking to him. Especially if you have a gun pointed at the BG. The BG should only hear your gun going bang not shooting off your mouth.

I totally agree with when he went home and called 911 he should have stayed right there. He didn't get to learn that lesson till it was to late. I was told when you see trouble get your feet pounding ground to get out of there if possible.

This article is perfect example of people with guns thinking the gun is there protection. A gun is only your safety net if you can take the BG out with it. A wounded or surrendering BG is still a threat to your life just like this scenario showed.
 
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A sad story indeed.

It is symbolic of the many people who buy a handgun and spend little time (if any) practicing with it...
even less time learning how and when to employ it. In this case, the result is we lose one "good" person, and are left with a thug that we could do without.

Hopefully, someone else who thinks like Pete learns from this story and avoids a similar situation in their future.
 
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Obviously, a case of a young and inexperienced person trying to help the situation. He undoubtedly meant well but lacked the tactical savvy that the situation required.
 
When you drive to the grocery store, there is no excuse for not wearing a NASCAR fireproof suit and helmet. :) After all, the odds of being in a car accident are dramatically higher than the odds of being the victim of a violent crime.

The crime rate in my suburb is so low that concealed carry here would be an act of stupidity/paranoia.

Hubris is not an attractive trait.
 
When you drive to the grocery store, there is no excuse for not wearing a NASCAR fireproof suit and helmet. :) After all, the odds of being in a car accident are dramatically higher than the odds of being the victim of a violent crime.

The crime rate in my suburb is so low that concealed carry here would be an act of stupidity/paranoia.
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Uh, WHAT? First off, preparation is not paranoia. Second, I can't imagine any reason to consider the lawful carrying of a sidearm to be stupidity. Third, your comparison is flawed - the odds of your car burning in a crash are small at most - but as for crashes, I always wear a seatbelt.

Your complacency is frightening, and your lack of analysis disconcerting.
 
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