........but I read a statement yesterday that I had'nt heard before. A writer in a print magazine said that forums were "on a downward spiral" and were being replaced by Facebook groups........
That's like 0.01% of Facebook. You guys pick that and run with it like that's what it's all about. It's simply your page and whatever you like. Just like your house. It's yours and filled with whatever you like. You want to follow Kardashians go for it.....Or.....You can use it every day and never see or hear of the Kardashians.
Local Business or Place
Company Organization or Institution
Brand or Product
Artist, Band or Public Figure
Entertainment
Cause or Community
Attractions/Things To Do
Bank
Bar
Book Store
Concert Venue
Food / Grocery
Hotel
Local Business
Movie Theatre
Musuem/Art Gallery
Outdoor Gear/Sporting Goods
Real Estate
Restaurant / Café
School
Shopping / Retail
Spas/Beauty/Personal Care and many more.
Automobiles and Parts
Church
Company
Computers/Technology
Consulting/Business Services
Cause
Food/Beverages
Health/Beauty
Insurance Company
Internet/Software
Legal/Law
Non-Profit Organization
Retail and Consumer Merchandise
Media/News/Publishing
Travel/Leisure and many more.
App
Appliance
Baby Goods/Kids Goods
Cars
Clothing
Electronics
Food/Beverages
Furniture
Games/Toys
Health/Beauty
Jewelry/Watches
Kitchen/Cooking
Pet Supplies
Vitamins/Minerals and many more
And on and on. Follow your favorite actor or start a church talk or motorcycle forum. Maybe a business.
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........ I think another possible reason for the resentment is that, as in my case, some may have lost good lifetime friendships because a lot of people are forsaking some forums they have been on for years, 19 years in my case, and gone to facebook........
In the meant time, if I may quote Rodney King, "Can't we all just get along?"![]()
Arik, you are spot on. I think that what might be going on here is that Facebook has all that you mention to offer and perhaps even more. But the reason that I, personally don't care for it, and perhaps I speak for some others in here, is because none of the things on your list hold even the slightest interest to me. Absolutely no interest in or use for any of that or anything else on FB.
It may be that when all us anti FBers experess our opinions we don't make that point. And I think that the resentment comes in when those that like and frequent FB try sooooo hard to sell it to the rest of us. It will never work with me and I'm sure that others feel the same. I think another possible reason for the resentment is that, as in my case, some may have lost good lifetime friendships because a lot of people are forsaking some forums they have been on for years, 19 years in my case, and gone to facebook.
At first I was hurt. The hurt turned to anger. And now the anger has turned to indifference. Actually these changes are the natural evolution of everything. Stuff changes. Some will like the changes and some won't. Life goes on.
I believe in live and let live. It's why we have different brands of coffee, different kinds of cars, different color shirts and different everything, so we can all have it like we want to.
And just as I believe that those that want to use FB should be able to do so with out criticism I believe that those of us that don't may receive the same consideration.
Every aspect of life evolves. With the advent of the internet evolution will not only continue but I think it will speed up. In a way I'm kind of glad that I won't be around to see just how things are going to go.
In the meant time, if I may quote Rodney King, "Can't we all just get along?"![]()
I think sometimes there is a 'clouding' of the definition that is assigned to the word "friendship". Cyber friendships differ greatly from personal face-to-face friendships. I have some cyber friends, but we share no experiences beyond that which takes place with a keyboard or smart phone. I also have personal friends that I have shared true life experiences with. Truly, I can count on the latter when the need arises. A friendship has many facets, and cyber interaction cannot support but a few of them. Please do not take me wrong, I am quite grateful for my acquaintances and interactions here on this forum. This is a well run gathering place where the collective group is fantastic. If I could, I would like to take some of these relationships another step and drink a Guinness or two with y'all..... But, alas, that is tough because I don't know where to get Cyber Guinness.
In my particular case these were definitely face to face friendships. We associated a lot. Cruises and vacations together, partied together. Visited together in each others homes etc. Then all of a sudden facebook takes off and they disappear like a puff of smoke on a windy day.
Those were true friendships. My bad for assuming otherwise.
I am quite sorry to hear about the outcomes. I can although feel your pain, as FB actually came between my wife and me. Got that fixed, but can appreciate well your feelings.
Circumstances seem to either temper or melt friendships. It is sad that some are fragile enough to be disrupted by something like FB. Cherish those that remain by your side.